My ex who had autism was like that, I had to break up because I couldn't handle his lack of closeness in our relationship. One of us would go on vacation or just be away all day and get back he would act like I was never gone. He also was obsessed with writing code for websites and designing them for friends so he was always preoccupied and he'd show me them often and didn't seem enthusiastic about the relationship.I didn't feel like I was in a relationship actually. He rarely hugged me and I just didn't feel close to him at all. We were young at the time and I didn't know what to expect but later I realized it's good I broke up with him because that's definitely not normal or healthy.
And as a disclaimer I just wanted to say I know not all people with autism are like that but in this guy's case it was his autism that made him that way. He actually had several relationships after me all of which the girl broke up with him after a few months.
Is it normal my introvert boyfriend barely asks to see me?
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My ex who had autism was like that, I had to break up because I couldn't handle his lack of closeness in our relationship. One of us would go on vacation or just be away all day and get back he would act like I was never gone. He also was obsessed with writing code for websites and designing them for friends so he was always preoccupied and he'd show me them often and didn't seem enthusiastic about the relationship.I didn't feel like I was in a relationship actually. He rarely hugged me and I just didn't feel close to him at all. We were young at the time and I didn't know what to expect but later I realized it's good I broke up with him because that's definitely not normal or healthy.
And as a disclaimer I just wanted to say I know not all people with autism are like that but in this guy's case it was his autism that made him that way. He actually had several relationships after me all of which the girl broke up with him after a few months.
You're not in a healthy relationship. Get out.