I'm sorry your husband is abdicating a decision you're offering him. Ultimately, though, you are the only one who can decide. I'm not sure what you can do to protect yourself from his future recriminations, but you shouldn't have to worry about that right now; you have to worry about what YOU want.
He's being incredibly passive-aggressive if he regularly passes big decisions off on you and then punishes you if he doesn't like the way you've chosen. It may be time for some serious counseling. That won't help you with the current decision you're facing because your time to choose is short, but it sounds like an absolute necessity for your future with this man -- who really sounds like more of a boy, if you want the blunt truth.
Good luck, and I hope you feel at peace with your decision no matter what you choose.
Is it normal my husband won't discuss the options?
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I'm sorry your husband is abdicating a decision you're offering him. Ultimately, though, you are the only one who can decide. I'm not sure what you can do to protect yourself from his future recriminations, but you shouldn't have to worry about that right now; you have to worry about what YOU want.
He's being incredibly passive-aggressive if he regularly passes big decisions off on you and then punishes you if he doesn't like the way you've chosen. It may be time for some serious counseling. That won't help you with the current decision you're facing because your time to choose is short, but it sounds like an absolute necessity for your future with this man -- who really sounds like more of a boy, if you want the blunt truth.
Good luck, and I hope you feel at peace with your decision no matter what you choose.