I think you simply grown bored of couple life. It happens to us all sooner or later. Staying together becomes mode like a necessity or a habit than something you want to do.
So it starts feeling less satisfing. Some people take longer other, for other ones it happens right after the first awkward or great honeymoon sex. The novelty just wears off easily. Even if you dump him and find someone else, it will just happen all over again. Of coirse he fets defensive when you confront him about it, it is not like he ignores you om purpose, it is just that men think they have to courtship a woman before getting laid or marring not afterwards. That's why marriage was invented in the first place. So men wouldn't have to repeat the whole courtship thing to have sex again. if it is that bad, and you really need somebody to reward you with compliments and maybe a little extra something, you should probably get yourself a lover. You can't exactly go to a lawyer and ask him to send him divorce papers because he does not tell you how beautiful you are. You'd just get laughed out of the office. You should have been predicting all this. Truth is you both grew bored of each other and you need to "revive" the fire of the lost past. You need to go out more often, try pretending you know each other and meeting all over again, that way you will remember what brought you together in the first place, and who knows, maybe you will even remember what is so valuable about being with each other, and start appreciating your family and each other eh?
How about that? How does that sound?
I personally believe it is bullshit but it worked for some.
Good luck!
Is it normal my husband takes me for granted?
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I think you simply grown bored of couple life. It happens to us all sooner or later. Staying together becomes mode like a necessity or a habit than something you want to do.
So it starts feeling less satisfing. Some people take longer other, for other ones it happens right after the first awkward or great honeymoon sex. The novelty just wears off easily. Even if you dump him and find someone else, it will just happen all over again. Of coirse he fets defensive when you confront him about it, it is not like he ignores you om purpose, it is just that men think they have to courtship a woman before getting laid or marring not afterwards. That's why marriage was invented in the first place. So men wouldn't have to repeat the whole courtship thing to have sex again. if it is that bad, and you really need somebody to reward you with compliments and maybe a little extra something, you should probably get yourself a lover. You can't exactly go to a lawyer and ask him to send him divorce papers because he does not tell you how beautiful you are. You'd just get laughed out of the office. You should have been predicting all this. Truth is you both grew bored of each other and you need to "revive" the fire of the lost past. You need to go out more often, try pretending you know each other and meeting all over again, that way you will remember what brought you together in the first place, and who knows, maybe you will even remember what is so valuable about being with each other, and start appreciating your family and each other eh?
How about that? How does that sound?
I personally believe it is bullshit but it worked for some.
Good luck!