Any man who spanks his wife is only using her in order to fulfil a desire for control. This is pretty abusive behaviour to me. I've been an abuser myself (I didn't think I was one at the time, but it turns out my behaviour was extremely manipulative looking back) and abused. A need for control and thus blaming/punishing the other person for perceived faults are a big part of it from my experiences. I think maybe you and him should have a talk.
IIN my husband spanks me when I make him angry
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Any man who spanks his wife is only using her in order to fulfil a desire for control. This is pretty abusive behaviour to me. I've been an abuser myself (I didn't think I was one at the time, but it turns out my behaviour was extremely manipulative looking back) and abused. A need for control and thus blaming/punishing the other person for perceived faults are a big part of it from my experiences. I think maybe you and him should have a talk.