Is it normal my husband likes anal masterbation

My husband is getting drunk, using a dildo on himself, watching porn and inhaling amyl nitrate whenever he can. He tries to get me to touch his asshole and I just cant stand it, it repulses me. We even got a double sided dildo I hate that too and buttplugs. Am I a prude for just being totally repulsed? He makes me feel guilty and prudeish for not liking it. I dont want to have sex even in a normal type way anymore. He also never stops stickinb his fingers in my butt during sex. I just hate it! Its not fair he is great in every other way. I knew a little of it before we got married but not like now. I have no one I feel like I can talk to about how unhappy I am sexually.

Is It Normal?
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  • the anal thing is normal. maybe if you really address it you can get back to some more 'normal' stuff. he has a prostate up there, kind of like your g-spot. google milking the prostate and you can give him a better orgasm then he can give him self. buy a strap on and refuse to perform unless he does what you want. get rubber gloves if teh asshole freaks you out. weird? a little? dirty? sure. abnormal? not at all. not gay unless he wants another man to do it. get in there and work him out and he'll do whatever you want.

    BTW if you milk him right it he will cum like a chick. bucking, moaning, cum shooting from a limp dick, will be the longest most powerful orgasm of his life and he can't duplicate it without you.

    if your marriage sucks... get out. if the weird sex is teh only problem... save your marriage and get on in there.

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  • it's normal for him to like it. but you don't have to...
    if you're not happy in your marriage, divorce, for the sake of both you.

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