Yes that you asked whether he was cheating or not, because at this point it doesn't fucking matter. The way he is treating her, no matter what angle you look at it from, is very bad and destructive.
It also doesn't matter if it is just from her perspective or not, if he knows she feels this way and doesn't care enough to talk about it then she needs to get away from him. No one in their right mind would be okay with knowing their wife feels like that.
And if you "don't really know" then stop weighing in on something that is far too serious for your level of uncertainty
Hey, take it easy chief.
Actually, ya know what, go fuck yourself.
You don't have a clue either. None of us do. It's a completely non-specific description of general vague behaviors from a biased perspective.
That's why I'm erring on the side of caution; I realise I don't know all the facts and gave the strong caveat that it's just my opinion. A cautious one at that - you know, I'm not rushing out telling this lady to end her marriage, that would be you.
You're obviously convinced, *based on a single paragraph*, that this lady should divorce. That's your opinion and your entitled to it.
I just don't share your strong convictions, because there was not enough information given for me OR YOU.
Look, maybe this scenario hits a nerve for you, that's the impression you're giving off. But the way you are reading the op, and the scenario you are imagining is not necessarily anything like the reality.
People are going to have different opinions to yours on this site, and if your attitude is "I'm always right, everyone who disagrees should shut up" then I'm telling you now, seriously go fuck yourself and please don't respond to my posts again.
But apart from that, I'm totally down for discussion and I'm very reasonable. Just not with rude fuckwits, that's all.
"He treats me like I am an obnoxious sister he doesn't want to know. He doesn't hear what I say, respond to me. or remember anything we have talked about or even done." That's all the information you should need buddy. More than enough. I still can't believe you think differently. In no world is that okay
That could describe someone sulking. Or it could describe a serious, unfixable problem.
I'm definitely not certain enough either way to suggest that the only solution is divorce. It may well be, I'm just not convinced that's literally the only solution. Tbh, I think you're overreacting, but you're entitled to your opinion. As I am to mine.
IIN my husband changes when he starts teaching every autumn?
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Yes that you asked whether he was cheating or not, because at this point it doesn't fucking matter. The way he is treating her, no matter what angle you look at it from, is very bad and destructive.
It also doesn't matter if it is just from her perspective or not, if he knows she feels this way and doesn't care enough to talk about it then she needs to get away from him. No one in their right mind would be okay with knowing their wife feels like that.
And if you "don't really know" then stop weighing in on something that is far too serious for your level of uncertainty
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Thank you so much for your response. It helps me feel better.
Hey, take it easy chief.
Actually, ya know what, go fuck yourself.
You don't have a clue either. None of us do. It's a completely non-specific description of general vague behaviors from a biased perspective.
That's why I'm erring on the side of caution; I realise I don't know all the facts and gave the strong caveat that it's just my opinion. A cautious one at that - you know, I'm not rushing out telling this lady to end her marriage, that would be you.
You're obviously convinced, *based on a single paragraph*, that this lady should divorce. That's your opinion and your entitled to it.
I just don't share your strong convictions, because there was not enough information given for me OR YOU.
Look, maybe this scenario hits a nerve for you, that's the impression you're giving off. But the way you are reading the op, and the scenario you are imagining is not necessarily anything like the reality.
People are going to have different opinions to yours on this site, and if your attitude is "I'm always right, everyone who disagrees should shut up" then I'm telling you now, seriously go fuck yourself and please don't respond to my posts again.
But apart from that, I'm totally down for discussion and I'm very reasonable. Just not with rude fuckwits, that's all.
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"He treats me like I am an obnoxious sister he doesn't want to know. He doesn't hear what I say, respond to me. or remember anything we have talked about or even done." That's all the information you should need buddy. More than enough. I still can't believe you think differently. In no world is that okay
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That could describe someone sulking. Or it could describe a serious, unfixable problem.
I'm definitely not certain enough either way to suggest that the only solution is divorce. It may well be, I'm just not convinced that's literally the only solution. Tbh, I think you're overreacting, but you're entitled to your opinion. As I am to mine.