An intention to cheat, which is what you believe but have no proof of, is not the same thing as actually cheating. Most people have attractions outside their primary relationship: if they don't act on them how can you call it cheating?
I'd be more concerned about how he treats you when these alleged attractions occur: maybe if you focussed on the facts of that rather than theories about what's going on in his head this situation could be improved with counselling, but I don't see the point of continuing to accuse him of something when you have no proof.
I have only offered facts. Most people agree that intent is the same thing as cheating.
if someone is tired of their partner, and they try to find a new love, but then they are constantly rejected, and can't find a person who will even smile at them, is that cheating?
They didn't get the opportunity to cheat. But they tried.
IIN my husband changes when he starts teaching every autumn?
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An intention to cheat, which is what you believe but have no proof of, is not the same thing as actually cheating. Most people have attractions outside their primary relationship: if they don't act on them how can you call it cheating?
I'd be more concerned about how he treats you when these alleged attractions occur: maybe if you focussed on the facts of that rather than theories about what's going on in his head this situation could be improved with counselling, but I don't see the point of continuing to accuse him of something when you have no proof.
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I have only offered facts. Most people agree that intent is the same thing as cheating.
if someone is tired of their partner, and they try to find a new love, but then they are constantly rejected, and can't find a person who will even smile at them, is that cheating?
They didn't get the opportunity to cheat. But they tried.