Her parents are fucked up... Kninda reminds me of my ex's parents. They used to be overprotective too. In front of them even a kiss means I get a dirty look from her parents.
Needless to say, that didn't stop me. We went out. We used to sneak into her place. We went to the beach together (She lied she was with lady friends)
However, in the end things fell apart. When it came down to her moving in to live with me, her parents were fully against it! And she listened to them. She had no willpower. No desire, no power to make a decision. We kept things going for another 6 months, but a relationship can't last when you are 2000km away from your girlfriend.
So, I moved on. Currently happily living (most of the time) at my girlfriend's place.
Here is my advice. If you really love this girl, continue the "fight". Try to get accepted. If things don't budge and seem impossible, maybe you should find another girlfriend with parents that will accept you. Cause even if you get married to that girl, do you want to have in-laws that hate you?
Good advice, megadriver. My now-husband and I were in a similar situation, but we kept up the "fight" and eventually moved in together, despite opposition from my family. OP, if the two of you are on the same page, then there's a good chance you can make this work.
The biggest thing isn't that they don't like me. It's that they know she isn't a virgin and her having premarital sex again scares them more than anything
IIN my girlfriends parents won't let us have space
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Her parents are fucked up... Kninda reminds me of my ex's parents. They used to be overprotective too. In front of them even a kiss means I get a dirty look from her parents.
Needless to say, that didn't stop me. We went out. We used to sneak into her place. We went to the beach together (She lied she was with lady friends)
However, in the end things fell apart. When it came down to her moving in to live with me, her parents were fully against it! And she listened to them. She had no willpower. No desire, no power to make a decision. We kept things going for another 6 months, but a relationship can't last when you are 2000km away from your girlfriend.
So, I moved on. Currently happily living (most of the time) at my girlfriend's place.
Here is my advice. If you really love this girl, continue the "fight". Try to get accepted. If things don't budge and seem impossible, maybe you should find another girlfriend with parents that will accept you. Cause even if you get married to that girl, do you want to have in-laws that hate you?
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Good advice, megadriver. My now-husband and I were in a similar situation, but we kept up the "fight" and eventually moved in together, despite opposition from my family. OP, if the two of you are on the same page, then there's a good chance you can make this work.
The biggest thing isn't that they don't like me. It's that they know she isn't a virgin and her having premarital sex again scares them more than anything