Is it normal my girl friend is not sexually attracted to me ?

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 4 and a half years now, but she seems like she is not attracted to me, I love her more than anything in this world, I would even say I will take a bullet for this girl just to save her life, every single thing I do in my life is to make sure she has a roof over her head and food on her plate, i will do anything in the world just to keep her happy and still no sex drive, I work Monday threw Friday and try my best to make side money on the weekends I have started cleaning the house more often to try and make her see I care about her. I feel like she loves me, but I don't feel like she is IN love with me, she tells me she doesn't like having sex and that I'm a handsome guy and it has nothing to do with me. We use to make love ALOT and now her just simply kissing me and telling me she loves me is like a crack head turning down some dope( impossible).. And to make everything worse and what scares me most of all, im the only guy she has ever had sex with, and I'm scared she might start to think it is just me and go to another guy. I need help, I don't want to loose the love of my life, how do I make her more attracted me, how do I make her want me again

Is It Normal?
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  • With that situation it sounds like pandering to her every need is not going to give you what you want. Sounds almost exactly like what I did in a relationship once with the 'love of my life' but it never worked out.

    Have you talked about it with her? What first drew you together? Maybe counselling will help.

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  • Romance her. Look it up on the web.

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  • Ignore her for her a week and then stop drowning her with love. She sounds like she's getting bored, and the fact that you were her first makes her want to explore and experience. Good luck bro.

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  • Have you tried pissing on her or ass to mouth?

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  • Things are not working. She may have never enjoyed sex with you because of a bad childhood experience. This situation just doesn't sound like it will improve. Get counseling about how to become more emotionally detached. You may need separate bedrooms for a while.

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  • Leave her for me. Cause my bf is the complete opposite of you. He does NOTHING for me, doesnt help around the house, and only loves me sexually. Lets trade lol

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  • Murder her.

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