No, what she is saying about you is completely inappropriate and unloving! I'm curious as to how she treats you and whether or not she is verbally and emotionally abusing you. I also suspect that she might be manipulating you on some level.
I know three years may seem like a long time, but it might be best for you to cut your losses, dear heart! I just got out of a verbally and emotionally abusive relationship that was on the cusp of turning physically abusive about a month ago, and I'm still pretty messed up inside. I was only with this person about a year, I'm 47 years old and have had my share of unhealthy relationships, but none of them were abusive until this last one. You're still quite young, and I assume this is one of your first relationships if not your first relationship. I want to humbly and earnestly invite you to take a step back, and examine your relationship with this young lady with a critical eye.
I highly encourage you to be fearless in parting ways with this young lady if you have reason to believe that she is manipulative, and or verbally and emotionally abusive towards you. You are a young person who is just starting out and if you stay with this girl you could not only be wasting your precious time, but actually setting a pattern of unhealthy relationships in your life, and believe me that is the last thing you want to do. Trust in your friend who discovered your girlfriend's two faced nature until he gives you a reason to not trust him.
I think it's probably best to break up with this girl and spend time healing and working on yourself, because you certainly don't want to set a pattern of dating unhealthy liars and manipulators in your life. I hope you don't mind my saying that you are at risk, because this is probably your first long-term relationship.
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No, what she is saying about you is completely inappropriate and unloving! I'm curious as to how she treats you and whether or not she is verbally and emotionally abusing you. I also suspect that she might be manipulating you on some level.
I know three years may seem like a long time, but it might be best for you to cut your losses, dear heart! I just got out of a verbally and emotionally abusive relationship that was on the cusp of turning physically abusive about a month ago, and I'm still pretty messed up inside. I was only with this person about a year, I'm 47 years old and have had my share of unhealthy relationships, but none of them were abusive until this last one. You're still quite young, and I assume this is one of your first relationships if not your first relationship. I want to humbly and earnestly invite you to take a step back, and examine your relationship with this young lady with a critical eye.
I highly encourage you to be fearless in parting ways with this young lady if you have reason to believe that she is manipulative, and or verbally and emotionally abusive towards you. You are a young person who is just starting out and if you stay with this girl you could not only be wasting your precious time, but actually setting a pattern of unhealthy relationships in your life, and believe me that is the last thing you want to do. Trust in your friend who discovered your girlfriend's two faced nature until he gives you a reason to not trust him.
I think it's probably best to break up with this girl and spend time healing and working on yourself, because you certainly don't want to set a pattern of dating unhealthy liars and manipulators in your life. I hope you don't mind my saying that you are at risk, because this is probably your first long-term relationship.
I wish you all the best!