If friends don't stand up for you when you are bullied then they aren’t good friends. I was bullied once.. Well kind of. I have the tendency of making those who bullied me my friends and usually they stood up for me, it’s complicated but I think the reasons I was able to do that was because I didn’t take it I stood up for myself and showed no weakness. People usually look for those who they deem weak and are easy prey. If you show them not to judge a book by its cover, I bet they'll understand and you'll be able to settle your differences and become friends. I've learned that usually people who tried to bully me just wanted to be my friends and they had hard times getting that through and used methods that were well kind of stupid in my opinion. Anyways be strong and try to talk it out with this bully, One to one is probably the best way so then there isn’t any showing off and having to have a fake image. Either you can confront the bully yourself if your alone and communicate with her or you keep being bullied by her.
Is it normal my friend stands up for the people who bully me?
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If friends don't stand up for you when you are bullied then they aren’t good friends. I was bullied once.. Well kind of. I have the tendency of making those who bullied me my friends and usually they stood up for me, it’s complicated but I think the reasons I was able to do that was because I didn’t take it I stood up for myself and showed no weakness. People usually look for those who they deem weak and are easy prey. If you show them not to judge a book by its cover, I bet they'll understand and you'll be able to settle your differences and become friends. I've learned that usually people who tried to bully me just wanted to be my friends and they had hard times getting that through and used methods that were well kind of stupid in my opinion. Anyways be strong and try to talk it out with this bully, One to one is probably the best way so then there isn’t any showing off and having to have a fake image. Either you can confront the bully yourself if your alone and communicate with her or you keep being bullied by her.