Is it normal my dad listens to female song artists?

Incorrect.

My comments are not 'stupid'.

Many people do care.

They are trying to help you.

stu·pid\ˈstü-pəd, ˈstyü-\
adjective
1 a : slow of mind : obtuse
b : given to unintelligent decisions or acts : acting in an unintelligent or careless manner
c : lacking intelligence or reason : brutish
2 : dulled in feeling or sensation : torpid <still stupid from the sedative>
3 : marked by or resulting from unreasoned thinking or acting : senseless <a stupid decision>
4 a : lacking interest or point <a stupid event>
b : vexatious, exasperating <the stupid car won't start>
stu·pid·ly adverb
stu·pid·ness noun
Origin: Middle French stupide, from Latin stupidus, from stupēre to be numb, be astonished — more at type.
First use: 1541

Synonym discussion: stupid dull dense crass dumb mean lacking in power to absorb ideas or impressions. stupid implies a slow-witted or dazed state of mind that may be either congenital or temporary <stupid students just keeping the seats warm> <stupid with drink>. dull suggests a slow or sluggish mind such as results from disease, depression, or shock <monotonous work that leaves the mind dull>. dense implies a thickheaded imperviousness to ideas <too dense to take a hint>. crass suggests a grossness of mind precluding discrimination or delicacy <a crass, materialistic people>. dumb applies to an exasperating obtuseness or lack of comprehension <too dumb to figure out what's going on>.