You can't change them, you can only change your response and if nothing overt is coming from them towards you, you could just stop worrying about it. It doesn't seem as if you've talked to them about it: you could find out if your impressions are correct by just asking them in a low key way if they'd like to be living in America too?
You never know, maybe your feelings aren't accurate. In any event, most families are full of unspoken resentments and secrets we all have to learn to live with if we can
IIN my cousins are jealous of me because I live in America?
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You can't change them, you can only change your response and if nothing overt is coming from them towards you, you could just stop worrying about it. It doesn't seem as if you've talked to them about it: you could find out if your impressions are correct by just asking them in a low key way if they'd like to be living in America too?
You never know, maybe your feelings aren't accurate. In any event, most families are full of unspoken resentments and secrets we all have to learn to live with if we can