Is it normal my cousin and i like eachother?

Soooo yeah you might see this as weird but my cousin and I have a sort of a crush on eachother.. And Please don't judge! I'm sure it's happened to a couple of people lol. prob is we're not kids.. he's 20, i'm a bit younger. And sometimes we hang out, flirt and send 'hints' to eachother to show that we like eachother... and this has been going on for a while. oh yeah and in my country, first cousins can actually get married.. (not that it was on my mind, I just wanted to show the kind of society i'm in)

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  • emotionless

    I actually dated my second cousin. We were never introduced as cousins and we met at school when we were about 10 or so. We learned that we were cousins when we were around 13. We grew an attraction for eachother as we enjoyed the same stuff. He is 19 now and I am 16. We dated for a year and a half until he moved away. We did have a sexual relationship, and we still love eachother very much. Our families never looked down upon us, but we all make a joke of it that we are cousins. If I could, I would drop everything, run away and be with him. When he does come home, we are always together. Not everyone accepts it, but it's something you learn to live with.

    If you love eachother, go for it. If you are unsure about it, still go for it. No one is going to get hurt. But you just have to be careful because you don't want to end up hating eachother if you are in a relationship because in the end you still have to see eachother at some point on your life. Hope this helps :)

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    • punkztar209

      Of course it helps! Best so far! Thanks so much for sharing your story! :D It's amazing how you guys made it work despite all the things that could have prevented you from being together or made the situation even more difficult; the age difference, the fact that he lives far away and that you're somehow related...
      It does scare me sometimes, the fact that I know I'm going to have to continue to see him throughout my life even if something goes wrong.. but then again you'll spend the rest of your life wondering about what could have been which in my opinion is worse than giving it a chance.

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  • kittykat1201

    GO FOR IT ;D
    I have a cousin who is in prison at the time he'll be on parole next year but when he gets out I will give him the best fucking he wont ever forget haha ;))

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  • kinkyfamilysex

    Go for it, that's so hor

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  • MrsBailey9

    It is normal and common. Just remember though that because you are so closely related by blood, should you ever have children the chances of your kids having birth defects and/or learning disorders ( mental retardation) are greatly increased. Are you prepared for that? Love is what it is, and everyone knows that. Not trying to tell you what to do, just want you to know what may lay ahead if you have children together. My friend married her first cousin and they have 3 kids together. There first child was born with 6 fingers on each hand and 6 toes on each foot. Their second child is severely mentally retarded and has 3 kidneys. The 3rd child is a dwarf, and has the 6 fingers/toes and moderately mentally retarded. They are pregnant with child number 4, due in September 2011. They can not take care of the 3 kids they have on their own, and the state provides services for their children. Social Security benefits, Medicaid/Medicare and respite. They are in Special Education classes and are all happy-go-lucky kids oblivious to their defects. Without assistance from the state, and school system these kids would not be functional young adults. The parents are trying for a "normal" child... I don't agree with their thinking, and I don't have to because it isn't my choice, or my life. Just for your info...good luck!

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  • IAMTHEBEST

    i think that is normal cuz i also have a crush on my cousin but not sure if he does.

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    • lol, try to find out then ... best of luck

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  • bulldozer

    I say suck his dick clean already!

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  • Breazygirl

    STOP JUDGING you stupid assholes!!! You ppl piss me off!!! I have a huge crush on my second cousin so fuck off!!! Ps don't listen to them if your cousin truly makes you happy no one cares!!

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    • punkztar209

      hehe thanks :) everybody has their opinion on this and I believe in free will ;) If two people care bout eachother they should be together if they want to...

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  • randomjelly

    ^ exactly. It's screams of desperation.

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  • riley1

    What is wrong with u people... There's plenty other people out there

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  • hnbout

    This is NORMAL... just not common. If you and your cousin love each other, want to have sex with each other, and are mature enough to keep it a secet and do it discreetly... Then, GO FOR IT!

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

      why be discrete. it's legal.

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  • CountryRoads

    I've never thought this was that abnormal...I mean your cousins are people who you grew up with, know their family history...it seems natural to develop feelings for someone like that.

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  • riley1

    Not normal it's nasty... Find somebody not related to u

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  • ilovesuperman

    What country are you from???

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

      First cousin marriage is legal in quite a few states.

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      • punkztar209

        It's legal in my country for sure lol

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