You are most helpful. What can I do to reassure him? I am not good at making people feel good about themselves, although I try when I'm in the mood.Usually he doesn't believe my compliments anyway and it seems I can never do enough to reassure him. We have been together for many years now, so we've already taken many breaks. They have helped somewhat, but we are too grown to go about it that way anymore. At least he is the kind of person who wants to change his flaws, though. How can I reassure him without becoming completely antisocial? I would delete these guys off my fb to make him feel better, but I feel there is no reason to. It's not like I have exes or crushes on there. And how should I react to his mind games?
Sorry for the long reply, vacation. Yep sounds like my evil twin. Well, if I were him I would want reassurance that she's only mine, that would probably be because of lack of emotional connection, Clearly he wants to own you, but he must understand that he is lucky your still together. My girl started to communicate more rarely, and mostly gave the cold shoulder, she was angry on me, that was driving me crazy, because I didin't know the cause, eventually, we divorced, as much as it displeased me. To me it seems, he doesn't appreciate your time together. he should get the feeling that he is losing you if he keeps up the bad behavior, that worked on me, I still want her back, I still want to amend for my mistakes.
IIN my boyfriend turned me into a bitch and now he hates me for it?
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You are most helpful. What can I do to reassure him? I am not good at making people feel good about themselves, although I try when I'm in the mood.Usually he doesn't believe my compliments anyway and it seems I can never do enough to reassure him. We have been together for many years now, so we've already taken many breaks. They have helped somewhat, but we are too grown to go about it that way anymore. At least he is the kind of person who wants to change his flaws, though. How can I reassure him without becoming completely antisocial? I would delete these guys off my fb to make him feel better, but I feel there is no reason to. It's not like I have exes or crushes on there. And how should I react to his mind games?
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Sorry for the long reply, vacation. Yep sounds like my evil twin. Well, if I were him I would want reassurance that she's only mine, that would probably be because of lack of emotional connection, Clearly he wants to own you, but he must understand that he is lucky your still together. My girl started to communicate more rarely, and mostly gave the cold shoulder, she was angry on me, that was driving me crazy, because I didin't know the cause, eventually, we divorced, as much as it displeased me. To me it seems, he doesn't appreciate your time together. he should get the feeling that he is losing you if he keeps up the bad behavior, that worked on me, I still want her back, I still want to amend for my mistakes.