This is quite common in sexual abuse survivors until they actually deal with it via professional therapy. I used to "go away" and not know I'd had orgasms: how weird is that? But I could act as if I was having a great time, which my body was, but my emotions couldn't deal with actually being fully there during sex.
PLEASE see someone for professional therapy ASAP: from my personal experience, the longer you put it off the harder it will be to deal with. And I know this will be hard, but you need to be honest with your partner about it: this will be easier if you've taken the first step of calling an anonymous crisis line for support and referral to an appropriate counsellor.
I wish you everything good: I know how hard this issue is to deal with but it is worth it - it won't go away by itself, I'm afraid
IIN my boyfriend thinks I am bad in bed?
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This is quite common in sexual abuse survivors until they actually deal with it via professional therapy. I used to "go away" and not know I'd had orgasms: how weird is that? But I could act as if I was having a great time, which my body was, but my emotions couldn't deal with actually being fully there during sex.
PLEASE see someone for professional therapy ASAP: from my personal experience, the longer you put it off the harder it will be to deal with. And I know this will be hard, but you need to be honest with your partner about it: this will be easier if you've taken the first step of calling an anonymous crisis line for support and referral to an appropriate counsellor.
I wish you everything good: I know how hard this issue is to deal with but it is worth it - it won't go away by itself, I'm afraid