2 things first for the teasing second the intimacy issue.
For teasing, seriously imitate porn, watch, learn, imitate.
For intimacy, get either naked or in some lingerie, then lay down in your boyfriends arms and cuddle. If this escalates to sex the first time, then good, if not then that's fine too.
While cuddling there are several things to do but Above All, MAINTAIN CONSTANT EYE CONTACT. The power of eye contact can never be underestimated. While cuddleing rub your hands all over each other, embrace each other, and maintain eye contact. This will make you feel much more comfortable.
If you are comfortable at this point, you can begin escalating, have your boyfriend play with your nipples and rub your pussy, show him your interest by actually grabbing his hands and move them into position.
Then tease him, rub your leg across his groin, kiss his neck.
If your comfortable going further, have him finger you till you orgasm, make sure you maintain eye contact when you orgasm, this should make you feel more connected to him, and aroused.
At this point if you're ready have sex, again maintain eye contact, you can try more creative positions once you have more intimacy.
I know they are emotional, I thought slowly trying to build intimacy, would help her work through the issues.
Instead of just rushing into sex, cuddling with her partner and staring into each other's eyes should help some at least.
Though these are just my opinions, I'm not a professional.
IIN my boyfriend thinks I am bad in bed?
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2 things first for the teasing second the intimacy issue.
For teasing, seriously imitate porn, watch, learn, imitate.
For intimacy, get either naked or in some lingerie, then lay down in your boyfriends arms and cuddle. If this escalates to sex the first time, then good, if not then that's fine too.
While cuddling there are several things to do but Above All, MAINTAIN CONSTANT EYE CONTACT. The power of eye contact can never be underestimated. While cuddleing rub your hands all over each other, embrace each other, and maintain eye contact. This will make you feel much more comfortable.
If you are comfortable at this point, you can begin escalating, have your boyfriend play with your nipples and rub your pussy, show him your interest by actually grabbing his hands and move them into position.
Then tease him, rub your leg across his groin, kiss his neck.
If your comfortable going further, have him finger you till you orgasm, make sure you maintain eye contact when you orgasm, this should make you feel more connected to him, and aroused.
At this point if you're ready have sex, again maintain eye contact, you can try more creative positions once you have more intimacy.
I hope this helps.
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You don't get it either: the problem here is not what's happening physically but her emotional issues resulting from abuse.
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I know they are emotional, I thought slowly trying to build intimacy, would help her work through the issues.
Instead of just rushing into sex, cuddling with her partner and staring into each other's eyes should help some at least.
Though these are just my opinions, I'm not a professional.