Go straight for the balls with dat mouth. Get a whiff of that good man stink. That'll turn him on. You could try dominating him, talking dirty, just try new things
So I'm guessing you didn't read the whole post (tbf it's super long) but the problem is I have been sexually abused in the past and I have such low self esteem and sexual shame that I have NO IDEA how to do those things. I'm open to them I just don't know how because I've never been in a normal sexual relationship. My idea of foreplay is basically kissing him or sucking him off and i think he'd like things to be a bit less mechanical and routine? I'd really appreciate practical tips!
I did read but i guess i didn't get it. Okay then uhh what I've done with my previous boyfriends is after they've gotten me revved up by touching me all over and kissing me etc. I shove them down onto the bed and straddle them so my ass cheeks are rubbing his member, slowly go up and down to give them access to my hole and rub his tip around there a bit (this is so weird to describe, never thought of how itd sound) while kissing/licking/sucking different areas of his neck. After a while i start kissing them all the way down, clavicle to sternum to belly (usually go slower there for some reason people like that I've noticed but I'm into plus size guys so idk if that applies) to crotch and then i usually take a good whiff (really turns them on) and start licking on those balls. Anyway i hope that helps? Haha
If i were you I'd start reading erotica in order to come up with a game plan for your next sexual encounter. From the woman's or bottoms' perspective would probably be more helpful
IIN my boyfriend thinks I am bad in bed?
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Go straight for the balls with dat mouth. Get a whiff of that good man stink. That'll turn him on. You could try dominating him, talking dirty, just try new things
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So I'm guessing you didn't read the whole post (tbf it's super long) but the problem is I have been sexually abused in the past and I have such low self esteem and sexual shame that I have NO IDEA how to do those things. I'm open to them I just don't know how because I've never been in a normal sexual relationship. My idea of foreplay is basically kissing him or sucking him off and i think he'd like things to be a bit less mechanical and routine? I'd really appreciate practical tips!
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I did read but i guess i didn't get it. Okay then uhh what I've done with my previous boyfriends is after they've gotten me revved up by touching me all over and kissing me etc. I shove them down onto the bed and straddle them so my ass cheeks are rubbing his member, slowly go up and down to give them access to my hole and rub his tip around there a bit (this is so weird to describe, never thought of how itd sound) while kissing/licking/sucking different areas of his neck. After a while i start kissing them all the way down, clavicle to sternum to belly (usually go slower there for some reason people like that I've noticed but I'm into plus size guys so idk if that applies) to crotch and then i usually take a good whiff (really turns them on) and start licking on those balls. Anyway i hope that helps? Haha
If i were you I'd start reading erotica in order to come up with a game plan for your next sexual encounter. From the woman's or bottoms' perspective would probably be more helpful