It sounds suspicious, but why would he tell you this detail if he was hiding something? 20 years together is a long time, so no doubt he's going to still care about her and maybe even take care of her in some ways. Either way, you need answers. Let him know you can't be in the dark about these things much longer because its not fair to you. And don't be afraid to leave if its driving you mad and he doesn't attempt to reassure you. Just try to understand, if he is being honest with you, that its not very easy to completely quit loving someone you spent 20 years with (and paying her insurance isn't so much different from paying her alimony).
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It sounds suspicious, but why would he tell you this detail if he was hiding something? 20 years together is a long time, so no doubt he's going to still care about her and maybe even take care of her in some ways. Either way, you need answers. Let him know you can't be in the dark about these things much longer because its not fair to you. And don't be afraid to leave if its driving you mad and he doesn't attempt to reassure you. Just try to understand, if he is being honest with you, that its not very easy to completely quit loving someone you spent 20 years with (and paying her insurance isn't so much different from paying her alimony).
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He wasn't honest until now, he did tell me this detail, I got it out of his mouth. I am sure there is more to this I don't know about.