Erm toys, anal, I'd like to watch porn together I haven't before, things like that. We're each others first so the things I want to try I never have. I love sex and think it's kinda interesting lol I like fetishes and how everyone is so different, he seems the opposite finds a lot of things "dirty" or "morally wrong". I've spoken to him about it so many times now its exhausting and I can feel and see it annoys him when I bring it up :/.
I'd start with the toys maybe. Talk about it. Take him with to pick it out if u can get him into the shop Lol. Don't get one that's gonna make him feel 'lacking'. Or maybe start with the porn. First time I watched porn with my girl it was really awkward but once you get over that, it is a lot of fun. It just sounds like your husband is sexually repressed, like so many many people who have been brainwashed by the Catholic church and conservative society. Ask him if there is anything he wants to try new. Tell him ur bored withyour sex life. Let him sleep on it. All that night hell be thinking of what you MIGHT do, being a sexually ununsatisfied SIG. Come morning I bel hell be willing to at least talk about it. Just take it slow. Remember you are bringing him outside his comfort zone. Patience is key.
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Erm toys, anal, I'd like to watch porn together I haven't before, things like that. We're each others first so the things I want to try I never have. I love sex and think it's kinda interesting lol I like fetishes and how everyone is so different, he seems the opposite finds a lot of things "dirty" or "morally wrong". I've spoken to him about it so many times now its exhausting and I can feel and see it annoys him when I bring it up :/.
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I'd start with the toys maybe. Talk about it. Take him with to pick it out if u can get him into the shop Lol. Don't get one that's gonna make him feel 'lacking'. Or maybe start with the porn. First time I watched porn with my girl it was really awkward but once you get over that, it is a lot of fun. It just sounds like your husband is sexually repressed, like so many many people who have been brainwashed by the Catholic church and conservative society. Ask him if there is anything he wants to try new. Tell him ur bored withyour sex life. Let him sleep on it. All that night hell be thinking of what you MIGHT do, being a sexually ununsatisfied SIG. Come morning I bel hell be willing to at least talk about it. Just take it slow. Remember you are bringing him outside his comfort zone. Patience is key.