It doesn't bode well that he takes no interest in being open to what you might need or want, sexually speaking. Is he inconsiderate in other areas of the relationship as well?
I guess at the end of the day, you need to decide how important this issue is to you. You also need to clearly communicate the fact that this is a problem.
A lot of women are terrified to ask for anything in a relationship, lest they be pegged as "demanding." I really don't see anything wrong with having demands and communicating them, as long as they are things that are important/essential to you. If you don't tell someone what you need, how are they going to give it to you?
If they know what you need and still don't give it to you, then it's time to move on.
It is normal to have different sexual needs and proclivities within a relationship, and things can still work, but only if you both clearly communicate your wants and needs to one another and put effort into accommodating each other, in order to make it a good experience for BOTH of you.
iin my boyfriend is so different to me sexually?
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It doesn't bode well that he takes no interest in being open to what you might need or want, sexually speaking. Is he inconsiderate in other areas of the relationship as well?
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Erm I think he tries to be attentive and open, he's just a bit well closed off. He says he's just not an overly emotional person.
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I guess at the end of the day, you need to decide how important this issue is to you. You also need to clearly communicate the fact that this is a problem.
A lot of women are terrified to ask for anything in a relationship, lest they be pegged as "demanding." I really don't see anything wrong with having demands and communicating them, as long as they are things that are important/essential to you. If you don't tell someone what you need, how are they going to give it to you?
If they know what you need and still don't give it to you, then it's time to move on.
It is normal to have different sexual needs and proclivities within a relationship, and things can still work, but only if you both clearly communicate your wants and needs to one another and put effort into accommodating each other, in order to make it a good experience for BOTH of you.
Speak up, woman ;)