Despite popular beleif, sex is very dependant on your mental state. It's very common for men to experience this when under pressur eot preform. If even if they made the pressure up in their own heads. Which isn't the case here. I'm assuming he's not going quickly by choice, he's just that way, so by you telling him oyu wan thim to go longer, he's getting preformance anxiety and having issues getting it up. The only cure is to make him feel good about himself, and let him know that sex isn't the only important thing to you and you will wait as long as it takes for him to feel comfortable. Unless sex really is the only important thing for you. In which case dump him.
Is it normal my boyfriend is having these issues?
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Despite popular beleif, sex is very dependant on your mental state. It's very common for men to experience this when under pressur eot preform. If even if they made the pressure up in their own heads. Which isn't the case here. I'm assuming he's not going quickly by choice, he's just that way, so by you telling him oyu wan thim to go longer, he's getting preformance anxiety and having issues getting it up. The only cure is to make him feel good about himself, and let him know that sex isn't the only important thing to you and you will wait as long as it takes for him to feel comfortable. Unless sex really is the only important thing for you. In which case dump him.