OP says this is their first partner perhaps it's the same for him? All of you calling him selfish please get a grip. Not everyone is the kamasutra master that you all clearly are.
My advice is talk to him. Let him know you enjoy sex too and that you don't feel like the current situation is fair. During sex get him to tell you when he feels even slightly close and immediately stop so he can't finish. You can have him use his fingers or tongue on you while he "cools down" then get back to it and repeat as needed. Also, start to take some control and tell him exactly what you want him to do. This will give him confidence instead of having to try and awkwardly figure out what works. Good luck.
IIN my boyfriend is done within 10 min?
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OP says this is their first partner perhaps it's the same for him? All of you calling him selfish please get a grip. Not everyone is the kamasutra master that you all clearly are.
My advice is talk to him. Let him know you enjoy sex too and that you don't feel like the current situation is fair. During sex get him to tell you when he feels even slightly close and immediately stop so he can't finish. You can have him use his fingers or tongue on you while he "cools down" then get back to it and repeat as needed. Also, start to take some control and tell him exactly what you want him to do. This will give him confidence instead of having to try and awkwardly figure out what works. Good luck.