Thank you all. My boyfriend believes in God but thinks I dont need to go to others to learn and that I can learn on my own. He gets jealous and suspicious. He just dont like me going alone to places were there are other men he wont trust, he gets concern because I am nice to peoPle, maybe if I was less friendly he wont mind me going.
Be careful hun, he's exhibiting a lot of red flags here with his controlling behavior. You shouldn't be made to avoid other men or places where you might run into men; it sounds like your bf is extremely insecure and he needs to realise that his insecurity is his problem, not yours and you shouldn't be made to coddle it.
I've dated a guy like this, lost touch with a lot of my friends for a long period. Except the dude I dated had more issues than that, he was essentially cutting me off from people around me and forbidding me to talk about parts of our relationship to get in my head and control me more. He was clinically insane and he was a manipulitive fuck, to the point it took me a while to realise and get away from him. (I was innocent... once. Honestly until he came along)
But still, keep an eye on him and you should really talk to him and explain why this kind of behavior is a problem. It might be harmless now but I know plenty of stories where it started out as this and ended up in some insane situations. The sooner he checks himself the sooner he can start fixing it.
Is it normal my boyfriend doesn't want me to go to Bible Group?
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Thank you all. My boyfriend believes in God but thinks I dont need to go to others to learn and that I can learn on my own. He gets jealous and suspicious. He just dont like me going alone to places were there are other men he wont trust, he gets concern because I am nice to peoPle, maybe if I was less friendly he wont mind me going.
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Be careful hun, he's exhibiting a lot of red flags here with his controlling behavior. You shouldn't be made to avoid other men or places where you might run into men; it sounds like your bf is extremely insecure and he needs to realise that his insecurity is his problem, not yours and you shouldn't be made to coddle it.
I've dated a guy like this, lost touch with a lot of my friends for a long period. Except the dude I dated had more issues than that, he was essentially cutting me off from people around me and forbidding me to talk about parts of our relationship to get in my head and control me more. He was clinically insane and he was a manipulitive fuck, to the point it took me a while to realise and get away from him. (I was innocent... once. Honestly until he came along)
But still, keep an eye on him and you should really talk to him and explain why this kind of behavior is a problem. It might be harmless now but I know plenty of stories where it started out as this and ended up in some insane situations. The sooner he checks himself the sooner he can start fixing it.
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Thanks