Okay, we've established what he's doing makes you feel uncomfortable. But what about HIM? Does it bother him that he's being taken advantage of? I mean if he's really suffering I see how you'd want him to change because you love him.
But from what you wrote it sounds like this is mostly bothering YOU. He's embarassing you.
I could be wrong. Maybe he'd really like to say no, but he's afraid - In that case FBFF7's advice is great.
But if he's just a generous man who wants to help his friends, well, frankly he can do with his money whatever he likes.
Is it normal my boyfriend can't tell people "no"?
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Okay, we've established what he's doing makes you feel uncomfortable. But what about HIM? Does it bother him that he's being taken advantage of? I mean if he's really suffering I see how you'd want him to change because you love him.
But from what you wrote it sounds like this is mostly bothering YOU. He's embarassing you.
I could be wrong. Maybe he'd really like to say no, but he's afraid - In that case FBFF7's advice is great.
But if he's just a generous man who wants to help his friends, well, frankly he can do with his money whatever he likes.