Some people honestly don't feel like they can say no, or that somehow they are a bad person if they don't say yes. But no is good sometimes. Especially with a situation like that.
ask him this, Does saying yes all the time make him happy?
Would saying no save him money, not let himself get taken advantage of? most likely. Its more of a personality thing, they feel like they have to be a good do'er, one to help all. but friend ships are both give and take.
perhaps the next time he goes to say yes. Blatantly tell them no.
Ask him in front of them or perhaps in private if he truly feels happy saying 'yes' all the time, chances are he doesn't.
hope this helped, somewhat
Is it normal my boyfriend can't tell people "no"?
← View full post
Some people honestly don't feel like they can say no, or that somehow they are a bad person if they don't say yes. But no is good sometimes. Especially with a situation like that.
ask him this, Does saying yes all the time make him happy?
Would saying no save him money, not let himself get taken advantage of? most likely. Its more of a personality thing, they feel like they have to be a good do'er, one to help all. but friend ships are both give and take.
perhaps the next time he goes to say yes. Blatantly tell them no.
Ask him in front of them or perhaps in private if he truly feels happy saying 'yes' all the time, chances are he doesn't.
hope this helped, somewhat