Is it normal, my boyfriend can't get me pregnant?

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My boyfriend asked me to marry him, but I wanted to get pregnant first. He has be trying for almost a year without success.

I don't want to marry a man that can't get me pregnant, and I don't want to cheat on him to get pregnant, but thinking that might me my best option, as I don't want to break up with him.

Which option is it normal for me to choose in this situation?

Break up with him	5
Cheat on him, until you get pregnant	12
Have sex with married men, until you get pregnant	13
Have him get his sperm count checked	96
Dump him if his sperm count is low	4

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dirtybirdy

7 years ago | pl

Break up with him followed promptly with a hysterectomy.

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- sillygirl77
  
  7 years ago
  
  I try to be nice, but I have to say I agree. I don't think the OP should have kids if this post is real!
  
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Tealights

7 years ago

End the relationship. Poor guy deserves better.

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Azaman

7 years ago

You do know there's ways to get pregnant without cheating on him...?

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jethro

7 years ago

What makes you think it is HE that can't get YOU pregnant? Did you ever think that you might be the problem and not him. Perhaps you are just barren and he is fine?

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Fall_leaves

7 years ago

I'm sure he would be ecstatic to find out 18 years later that the kid he assumed was his, is actually someone else's.

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sararyan7242

7 years ago

I can't help any more... Good luck...

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  You talked me into having sex with married men... You can bail on me now...
  
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ILICKTWATS

7 years ago

Go to a sperm bank honey and get artificially insemenated.

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sararyan7242

7 years ago

If a guy drinks too much or smokes, that can reduce the sperm count too. So if he is drinking of smoking, he may have to stop for awhile.
I don't smoke, but have friends that do, and they are always having all kinds of problems.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  He has been going out with his friends drinking and smoking, and I haven't been too happy about that.
  
  How do I stop him from doing that without pissing him off?
  
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  - Azaman
    
    7 years ago
    
    Don't
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      7 years ago
      
      Why not?
      
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      - forgotusernameagain
        
        7 years ago
        
        Because he's not your plaything to control as you wish!
        
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RoseIsabella

7 years ago

Whatever you do don't cheat on him! Speak to him about your concerns, if you really love him, then prove it by not betraying or disrespecting him in any way.

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mysistersshadow

7 years ago

Has he seen a doctor to check his sperm count?

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Anonymous Post Author

7 years ago

Looks like "cheat on him with married men" is a popular response, so I might give that a try. CL and AM?

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coleen

7 years ago

Hi there, if i was you i'd visit a doctor and have him and you checked out. im having the same problem and went to to doctor. see your options what going on

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sararyan7242

7 years ago

I would go the married man route as it is the safest, and no way would a married man want to pay for a kid.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  Thanks, I needed to hear that, as I just slept with a married man last night. I loved it, and you are right, he will never say a word.
  
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  - sararyan7242
    
    7 years ago
    
    I don't believe we told you to sleep with married men, only suggested that over going to bars and sleeping with random guys.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      7 years ago
      
      Well, now I had sex with my second married man this week, and kind of like it, plus i love not using condoms. Hopefully I get pregnant soon!
      
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      - Anonymous Post Author
        
        7 years ago
        
        Plus my daddy always said I was dumber than a box of rocks, so I hope to prove him wrong. I just quit taking the pill this week,so perhaps I will get pregnant soon.
        
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        sararyan7242
        
        7 years ago
        
        Hate to break this to you, but perhaps if you were on the pill this whole time, that might be why your bf can't get you pregnant. Maybe daddy was right. Sorry, no offense intended.
        
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ShereKhan

7 years ago

jesus christ you are plain fucking stupid, break up with him because he deserves better and never have kids because you'll most likely fuck them up or pass down your stupid genes to them.

if you're willing to break up with a man just because he can't fill your vagina up with sperm than you really need to reconsider your priorities. or go to a therapist, though i doubt they'll make a breakthrough with you

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  Wrong, I need a man that can be a man and get me pregnant.
  I don't want a pussy for a husband. I've give it to him a year straight as often as he wants, still a failure...
  
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  - ShereKhan
    
    7 years ago
    
    you're unfit to be a parent.
    have fun raising a mentally fucked child, just don't blame the kid when everything goes to shit because of your faults
    
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Carlton03

7 years ago

You can't just justify cheating like that you idiot!!!!! do you actually think that's a good idea or suitable???? I mean think!!!!!! How do you think he would feel about it the poor dude????? There's so many options these days if he fails to get you pregnant

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CreamPuffs

7 years ago

You idiot... Just go to a sperm bank or something... Or adopt a baby... Bloody hell you people are selfish.

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spy02

7 years ago

Break up with him, it'll be the best option for that poor guy. Did you even love him? I don't think so.

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xxzoexx17

7 years ago

Who's saying cheat on him? Because that's screwed up. Don't. You shouldn't break up with him because he can't get you pregnant. Check his sperm count. It might be you, you never know. If you REALLY want a child, adoption is always an option.

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Osho

7 years ago

cheat on him with a baby?! WUT?!!

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DuHast

7 years ago

Idiocracy.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  7 years ago
  
  I said I don't want to break up with him or cheat on him, but if need be a married man shouldn't be too hard to find to see if it's him or me.
  
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  - DuHast
    
    7 years ago
    
    hey, what's CL and AM?
    (sorry if that's a silly question, I just don't know stuff)
    
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    - sararyan7242
      
      7 years ago
      
      My guess is Craig's List and Ashley Madison, but I don't know for sure.
      
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      - DuHast
        
        7 years ago
        
        Oh...you're good. Nice work
        
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spy02

7 years ago

Did you ever consider, that his sperm can be fine and the problem is on your side? Damn, you're selfish...

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