Is it normal, my boyfriend can't get me pregnant?

My boyfriend asked me to marry him, but I wanted to get pregnant first. He has be trying for almost a year without success.

I don't want to marry a man that can't get me pregnant, and I don't want to cheat on him to get pregnant, but thinking that might me my best option, as I don't want to break up with him.

Which option is it normal for me to choose in this situation?

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  • Break up with him followed promptly with a hysterectomy.

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    • I try to be nice, but I have to say I agree. I don't think the OP should have kids if this post is real!

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  • End the relationship. Poor guy deserves better.

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  • You do know there's ways to get pregnant without cheating on him...?

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  • What makes you think it is HE that can't get YOU pregnant? Did you ever think that you might be the problem and not him. Perhaps you are just barren and he is fine?

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  • I'm sure he would be ecstatic to find out 18 years later that the kid he assumed was his, is actually someone else's.

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  • I can't help any more... Good luck...

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    • You talked me into having sex with married men... You can bail on me now...

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  • Go to a sperm bank honey and get artificially insemenated.

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  • If a guy drinks too much or smokes, that can reduce the sperm count too. So if he is drinking of smoking, he may have to stop for awhile.
    I don't smoke, but have friends that do, and they are always having all kinds of problems.

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    • He has been going out with his friends drinking and smoking, and I haven't been too happy about that.

      How do I stop him from doing that without pissing him off?

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  • Whatever you do don't cheat on him! Speak to him about your concerns, if you really love him, then prove it by not betraying or disrespecting him in any way.

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  • Has he seen a doctor to check his sperm count?

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  • Looks like "cheat on him with married men" is a popular response, so I might give that a try. CL and AM?

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  • Hi there, if i was you i'd visit a doctor and have him and you checked out. im having the same problem and went to to doctor. see your options what going on

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  • I would go the married man route as it is the safest, and no way would a married man want to pay for a kid.

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    • Thanks, I needed to hear that, as I just slept with a married man last night. I loved it, and you are right, he will never say a word.

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      • I don't believe we told you to sleep with married men, only suggested that over going to bars and sleeping with random guys.

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        • Well, now I had sex with my second married man this week, and kind of like it, plus i love not using condoms. Hopefully I get pregnant soon!

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          • Plus my daddy always said I was dumber than a box of rocks, so I hope to prove him wrong. I just quit taking the pill this week,so perhaps I will get pregnant soon.

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            • Hate to break this to you, but perhaps if you were on the pill this whole time, that might be why your bf can't get you pregnant. Maybe daddy was right. Sorry, no offense intended.

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  • jesus christ you are plain fucking stupid, break up with him because he deserves better and never have kids because you'll most likely fuck them up or pass down your stupid genes to them.

    if you're willing to break up with a man just because he can't fill your vagina up with sperm than you really need to reconsider your priorities. or go to a therapist, though i doubt they'll make a breakthrough with you

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    • Wrong, I need a man that can be a man and get me pregnant.
      I don't want a pussy for a husband. I've give it to him a year straight as often as he wants, still a failure...

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      • you're unfit to be a parent.
        have fun raising a mentally fucked child, just don't blame the kid when everything goes to shit because of your faults

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  • You can't just justify cheating like that you idiot!!!!! do you actually think that's a good idea or suitable???? I mean think!!!!!! How do you think he would feel about it the poor dude????? There's so many options these days if he fails to get you pregnant

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  • You idiot... Just go to a sperm bank or something... Or adopt a baby... Bloody hell you people are selfish.

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  • Break up with him, it'll be the best option for that poor guy. Did you even love him? I don't think so.

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  • Who's saying cheat on him? Because that's screwed up. Don't. You shouldn't break up with him because he can't get you pregnant. Check his sperm count. It might be you, you never know. If you REALLY want a child, adoption is always an option.

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  • cheat on him with a baby?! WUT?!!

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  • Idiocracy.

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    • I said I don't want to break up with him or cheat on him, but if need be a married man shouldn't be too hard to find to see if it's him or me.

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  • Did you ever consider, that his sperm can be fine and the problem is on your side? Damn, you're selfish...

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