It should be a big deal to you. You deserve better treatment than someone who regularly and openly flirts with other people. If he truly is flirting -- not just assuring some female friend who said she looked bad in a picture that no, she was in fact really beautiful or something equally innocuous -- then dump his ass!
Men will look at other women. They'll look at them in porn, they'll notice them on the streets, they'll pay extra attention to certain actresses -- some way or another, they will look. How you see that depends on you, but to me, it isn't inherently disrespectful to notice that other women are pretty. Where it crosses the line is if he approaches other women and tells them they're beautiful unsolicited. If he's doing that, he isn't just being an ass to you; he's also being kind of a creep to other women.
Run. Run from that.
Love should not be "I do everything he wants me to do and please him in every way possible, but he still doesn't treat me with respect." That puts you on a lower level than him, a supplicant who's hoping to win favor rather than an equal partner.
IIN my bf is flirty with other girls and i feel betrayed and more..
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It should be a big deal to you. You deserve better treatment than someone who regularly and openly flirts with other people. If he truly is flirting -- not just assuring some female friend who said she looked bad in a picture that no, she was in fact really beautiful or something equally innocuous -- then dump his ass!
Men will look at other women. They'll look at them in porn, they'll notice them on the streets, they'll pay extra attention to certain actresses -- some way or another, they will look. How you see that depends on you, but to me, it isn't inherently disrespectful to notice that other women are pretty. Where it crosses the line is if he approaches other women and tells them they're beautiful unsolicited. If he's doing that, he isn't just being an ass to you; he's also being kind of a creep to other women.
Run. Run from that.
Love should not be "I do everything he wants me to do and please him in every way possible, but he still doesn't treat me with respect." That puts you on a lower level than him, a supplicant who's hoping to win favor rather than an equal partner.