I feel sorry for u as a guy. Why do you keep hanging with guys that are crazy and abusive?? ? they are so many guys in our world that would save you from this world you live in but instead, u keep coming back to the douche bags ... what i see is ur own fault for choosing the wrong boyfriends. Beside, take a time off in your relationship and stop getting boyfriends for a while until ur anxiety goes away. When i read this i kinda got angry my self u are being very stupid.
I'm not sure how you digest this story and decide the most productive advice for the OP would be to say how angry she makes you and to call her "very stupid". Read the story again, put yourself in her shoes, and see whether you think this is still appropriate.
Irregardless of the details of the story, this is someone who has just ended a serious relationship. I know how that feels and doubtless you do too. Perhaps neither of us are in the situation at the moment, but we can still have a little empathy for people when they are obviously suffering. Another day, it'll be our turn. Being kicked when you are at your lowest ebb is worse than being kicked at any other time.
I didn't know it was going to end up that way. :( For the better part of a year he was a complete sweetheart. You must think I'm one of those dumb bimbos who goes out dating a thug and ends up regretting it. I chose the sweet, quietish kid from open mic who takes care of his handicapped brother and gets involved in disability rights. Everyone's got issues, apparently I just got lucky and drew someone with the temper of a child. All of this violence just happened last friday, and I ended it. But apparently you have nothing better to do than go online and make an already hurt girl feel like shit.
Is it normal my anxiety scared my boyfriend away?
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I feel sorry for u as a guy. Why do you keep hanging with guys that are crazy and abusive?? ? they are so many guys in our world that would save you from this world you live in but instead, u keep coming back to the douche bags ... what i see is ur own fault for choosing the wrong boyfriends. Beside, take a time off in your relationship and stop getting boyfriends for a while until ur anxiety goes away. When i read this i kinda got angry my self u are being very stupid.
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I'm not sure how you digest this story and decide the most productive advice for the OP would be to say how angry she makes you and to call her "very stupid". Read the story again, put yourself in her shoes, and see whether you think this is still appropriate.
Irregardless of the details of the story, this is someone who has just ended a serious relationship. I know how that feels and doubtless you do too. Perhaps neither of us are in the situation at the moment, but we can still have a little empathy for people when they are obviously suffering. Another day, it'll be our turn. Being kicked when you are at your lowest ebb is worse than being kicked at any other time.
I didn't know it was going to end up that way. :( For the better part of a year he was a complete sweetheart. You must think I'm one of those dumb bimbos who goes out dating a thug and ends up regretting it. I chose the sweet, quietish kid from open mic who takes care of his handicapped brother and gets involved in disability rights. Everyone's got issues, apparently I just got lucky and drew someone with the temper of a child. All of this violence just happened last friday, and I ended it. But apparently you have nothing better to do than go online and make an already hurt girl feel like shit.