Is it normal/messed up to break up after sex(please read description)

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  • This happened to me once. Supposedly, it's pretty normal. You sound like you were only in a relationship with her for her looks. It's common to re-evaluate your relationship after major events, like having sex for the first time; this time you noticed that you aren't really interested in her as a person.

    That being said, I still think what you did was pretty messed up. You should have ended it before you started having sex. Ending it right after your first time with her is a huge blow to her self-esteem.

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    • No I liked her as a person, like she started to like me first and I thought of her more like an addition to my wisdom and friendship, and we could be friends for like ever. And then I found out after we started dating that she was REALLY sexually intimate. Like I knew she wasn't a virgin but she pretty much wouldn't leave me alone(I am not complimenting myself in any way, she just has a problem with coming onto people I guess, maybe hormones weren't balanced)

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