I voted not normal because it's uncommon, but it sounds like you have an unspoken understanding. If this is the case you're good, but how do you know she's aware of what you're doing? That you use the word "cheating" tells me you're not entirely certain you have her blessing, and if your communication is that incomplete I wonder if it's possible she isn't actually having physical contact with other men. In any case it would be better if at a minimum you set up some ground rules concerning safety.
One time I was scrolling through facebook messages and there was messages from girls and she jokingly said "what were yall talkin about" and i was just like "eh nothing" and she said "mmmmhm". Thats one example. But I dont really hide anything its in the open. I know she does it too but one time I had a friend over spending a night after we left a party and I had sex with her a little and then when I was done I laid down to go to sleep and I heard her later in there having sex with him.
So yeah theres no doubt shes doing it and I doubt shes clueless about what im doing.
I know its weird. Idk when it became like this but we have been together since highschool.
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I voted not normal because it's uncommon, but it sounds like you have an unspoken understanding. If this is the case you're good, but how do you know she's aware of what you're doing? That you use the word "cheating" tells me you're not entirely certain you have her blessing, and if your communication is that incomplete I wonder if it's possible she isn't actually having physical contact with other men. In any case it would be better if at a minimum you set up some ground rules concerning safety.
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Oh and when we were on vacation she told me to keep an eye out for a girl to have a threesome with
One time I was scrolling through facebook messages and there was messages from girls and she jokingly said "what were yall talkin about" and i was just like "eh nothing" and she said "mmmmhm". Thats one example. But I dont really hide anything its in the open. I know she does it too but one time I had a friend over spending a night after we left a party and I had sex with her a little and then when I was done I laid down to go to sleep and I heard her later in there having sex with him.
So yeah theres no doubt shes doing it and I doubt shes clueless about what im doing.
I know its weird. Idk when it became like this but we have been together since highschool.