is it normal kids wanting to date poeple 20 years older ?

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  • Your very ignorant and stupid, the teachers are the ones at fault, I'll admit when I was in high school and an attractive woman 20 years older than me wanted me I would JUMP at the chance. How do adults date kids though? This I'll never understand. Having an attraction to an adult when you're young is very normal, there's countless people who look good for their age.

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    • When you date someone you also have to take into accoutn their is a age diffrence . With this diffrent ages are going to generally be more advanced and want more if you fate someone that much older they are going to be alot smarter and gonna desiere more than just holding hands . No one ever considers any of these variables I consider these things in seeing a solution to problems and I always know if thier is a possible problem even if I dont know ill sit thier for painsaking hours trying to figure it out , so what is a normal person thinking ? I understand basic machanices thats why I am good at fixing poeples issues generally however I do not understand these poeple at all ? what is the logic behind it i dont understand this at all .

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      • tellmeimwrong, was just stating that obviously the adults who cannot control themselves are at fault, not the 'kids'.

        But your concern is you don't even understand why on Earth they would ever contemplate such a thing, let alone do it!
        I'll tell you that the 'adult' has lured or provided exactly what the young girl wants (for his own selfishness) Generally many will fall for this.

        Don't think for an instant that young girls are looking at 40yo men as hot, or a relationship. The 'relationship' has been originated by the older man.

        Whatever you want, you can't refuse.

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        • That was my piont I do not understand why a kid would do this ? I never did I always thought it was illogical I found most relationships illogical and piontless at the time . I do not understand human benes but some how I know how to solve thier problems I dont understand how this is but I never understand why these kids see this as " Great idea " !

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          • I don't actually know your age. But any older adult can make it a 'great idea' in your mind (yes your mind too)

            Since this is a criminal offense I suppose I shouldn't outline the steps. Just be aware that 'grooming' a child is something men responsibly decide not to do.
            The adults that have started relations with your friends or teenagers you have heard of, are very deceiving and sly. Since they risk jail time, their persuasions may be critical to these teenagers.

            What do they really have over them? Hiding the truth, and some teenagers like living in fantasy land.

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    • no but I mean thier is poeple who are 14 going for poeplethat are 30 or over 50 poeple with wrinckles also I do not see how this is normal I never wanted to date anyone the age of my dad or grampa . Its normal like someone older but that much older? Also they do not understand why the adults leave them and start treating them like krap . They do not understand basic stuff I do not know maybe im the abnormal one but I never understude things like this . I do not know maybe I am not good at understanding a childs logic I always fealt like I was looking through a glass I never expiereinced things like them I was like a martian but I do not see how they see this as normal ? they think it is ok I do not understand why this is so very alluring ? explain to me that " ? just becuase I am the one asked for advice doesnt mean this makes any sense to me humans never did. explain to me the psychology behind this ?

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