I don't understand why the others are defending your fathers actions here ...
He is using this to spy on your mother as well and questions things that he finds. So what if you guys are talking to people outside of America?
My parents have always said that they would NEVER snoop unless they suspected that I did drugs whilst I still lived at home. We have always had an open dialogue and I have been able to come to them with my problems and I have invited them in to whom I have been talking to and I have met people from the internet too.
I think that parents that controls their kids like this are lacking some serious parenting skills and tries to have as much control as possible over you.
I do NOT think that it's normal.
If I get kids though, they aren't allowed to have a PC in their own room until they are old enough to deal with it wisely, far too many predators out there.
They were never from another country. They were in the same town and same school. However they moved from other cities but just didn't feel like changing their phone number when they moved.
Forgive me, OP. But the description definitely sounds like a situation of abuse. Not only that, but your father seemed very paranoid/threatened. His behavior reminds me of my mother's mother. While surveillance software was never used, when I got to a certain age, her mother would accuse me of everything under the sun. She accused me of looking up porn (I am assuming that she thought it was lesbian porn due to the fact that she kept trying to accuse me of being one.), sometimes she would do an extremely bad job of "inconspicuously" watching me use the internet and then whenever she was questioned, she make up some lame ass excuse. Before I got an iPhone, I had an LG Shine (What a shitty little phone!) and sometimes if I had left my phone unintended and I got a message, if she was in the vin city, she'd read it! If not that, she and sometimes my mother would demand that I read the message aloud and then want to see it. Such fuckery.
I almost forgot: That frog at one point kept accusing me and my friends of sexting. Deep down, I bet she probably delighted at the idea of me taking and sending nude photos of my young body. O_O
IIN its illegal to read email but its ok to spy on your kids?
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I don't understand why the others are defending your fathers actions here ...
He is using this to spy on your mother as well and questions things that he finds. So what if you guys are talking to people outside of America?
My parents have always said that they would NEVER snoop unless they suspected that I did drugs whilst I still lived at home. We have always had an open dialogue and I have been able to come to them with my problems and I have invited them in to whom I have been talking to and I have met people from the internet too.
I think that parents that controls their kids like this are lacking some serious parenting skills and tries to have as much control as possible over you.
I do NOT think that it's normal.
If I get kids though, they aren't allowed to have a PC in their own room until they are old enough to deal with it wisely, far too many predators out there.
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They were never from another country. They were in the same town and same school. However they moved from other cities but just didn't feel like changing their phone number when they moved.
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Forgive me, OP. But the description definitely sounds like a situation of abuse. Not only that, but your father seemed very paranoid/threatened. His behavior reminds me of my mother's mother. While surveillance software was never used, when I got to a certain age, her mother would accuse me of everything under the sun. She accused me of looking up porn (I am assuming that she thought it was lesbian porn due to the fact that she kept trying to accuse me of being one.), sometimes she would do an extremely bad job of "inconspicuously" watching me use the internet and then whenever she was questioned, she make up some lame ass excuse. Before I got an iPhone, I had an LG Shine (What a shitty little phone!) and sometimes if I had left my phone unintended and I got a message, if she was in the vin city, she'd read it! If not that, she and sometimes my mother would demand that I read the message aloud and then want to see it. Such fuckery.
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I almost forgot: That frog at one point kept accusing me and my friends of sexting. Deep down, I bet she probably delighted at the idea of me taking and sending nude photos of my young body. O_O