If he's not turning a serious situation into a joke, I would say its harmless and he probably really does care about you, enough to be himself around you.
Don't let him feel like he can't be himself around you, cause that will probably upset and confuse him.
If a specific joke bothers you, explain it nicely to him, I'm sure he will be kind and understand.
Your sec statement is what I'm afraid of. That's why I want to make sure what he really is up to. Is he just joking around and doesn't mean any harm? and if he is then okay, I want him to feel comfortable around me so this whole thing is a good thing. I don't want him to be all closed up around me then that's just not good. However, if that's not the case then wth? Does he not take seriously enough? and if that's the case, then how can I get him to take me seriously? if he has a hard time to be serious when we need to be serious, then does that mean I need to leave him?
IIN is he consistently jokes around?
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If he's not turning a serious situation into a joke, I would say its harmless and he probably really does care about you, enough to be himself around you.
Don't let him feel like he can't be himself around you, cause that will probably upset and confuse him.
If a specific joke bothers you, explain it nicely to him, I'm sure he will be kind and understand.
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Your sec statement is what I'm afraid of. That's why I want to make sure what he really is up to. Is he just joking around and doesn't mean any harm? and if he is then okay, I want him to feel comfortable around me so this whole thing is a good thing. I don't want him to be all closed up around me then that's just not good. However, if that's not the case then wth? Does he not take seriously enough? and if that's the case, then how can I get him to take me seriously? if he has a hard time to be serious when we need to be serious, then does that mean I need to leave him?