I think it sounds like you're reading a bit too much into it, guys do joke around and sometimes it can be hard for that kind of guy to stop joking and be serious, but when you need him to be serious, you should clearly communicate with him and see how he reacts. If he just cannot be serious when he needs to be, that would be a problem, but as for a generally easygoing guy that doesn't take life too seriously, there's nothing wrong with that.
Yeah he just can't be serious when I ask him a few times to be. He just doesn't like confrontations cause he thinks itll turn into a fight when really, we're just gonna have a conversation. It is sooooooooo annoying trying to get him to be serious. Most of the time I know he doesn't mean any harm but then sometimes I think maybe he just doesn't take seriously so what can I do to get him to realize its not a joke anymore and if he's not taking me seriously then does that mean I need to leave him?
IIN is he consistently jokes around?
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I think it sounds like you're reading a bit too much into it, guys do joke around and sometimes it can be hard for that kind of guy to stop joking and be serious, but when you need him to be serious, you should clearly communicate with him and see how he reacts. If he just cannot be serious when he needs to be, that would be a problem, but as for a generally easygoing guy that doesn't take life too seriously, there's nothing wrong with that.
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Yeah he just can't be serious when I ask him a few times to be. He just doesn't like confrontations cause he thinks itll turn into a fight when really, we're just gonna have a conversation. It is sooooooooo annoying trying to get him to be serious. Most of the time I know he doesn't mean any harm but then sometimes I think maybe he just doesn't take seriously so what can I do to get him to realize its not a joke anymore and if he's not taking me seriously then does that mean I need to leave him?