Is it normal intolerant overly sexual people irritate me?

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I dont think sex is something no one should ever have. However some people get upset when you are not all excited and overly graphic and blunt about it. Is it really necessary we flaunt everything and brag about everything we do in the bedroom? Do we not have a right to discretion? I mean I dont go yelling at people saying "What a slut!" and preaching them into a coma. So why should others have to deal with the reverse saying "You must talk about or be having sex or you are repressed and wrong"?

Those people just feel bad and have low self esteem	35
No everyone should think sex, talk about it, and have it all the time!	41
Those people are just dumb and do not understand how to interact	69
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dirtybirdy

10 years ago

You're the one who thinks bulge and lesbian are bad words, aren't'cha.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  10 years ago
  
  Bulge is not a bad word.
  
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  - dirtybirdy
    
    10 years ago
    
    I know that but it makes you think of penis which you think is bad or too sexual. So then lesbian is a bad word? Cus you didn't say that wasn't.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      10 years ago
      
      Who told you sex was bad? Why do you think sex is bad? Sex is normal for adults anyways. Lesbian means women who like other women which is normal. Well ok its debatable if its normal or not but I do not see it as bad.
      
      You realize not saying something is good does not mean its by default bad either. Why cant any of these just be neutral? What is your issue with gay women? I do not see a problem with it.
      
      If they are happy let them be. Long as no one is getting raped or anything. Simply mentioning lesbians does not mean you hate lesbians. You have a very strange logic. Are you feeling insure about it? You do not have to assume everyone is attacking you if that's the case. Being gay is fine! It is really not a big deal.
      
      I do not understand why people assume it to be a bad thing. Not everyone hates gay people or particularly care either way. It is wrong to assume so. You know if you stay with that type of mentality it does not help gays(homosexuals) in anyway. You know some people besides other gays might actually want to be Friends and not attack anyone right?
      
      Please leave your prejudice at home. It is not mature to attack people for things like religion or being gay.
      
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      - dirtybirdy
        
        10 years ago | pl
        
        What in the fucks name are you blathering about? I never said sex was bad. Who said I had a problem with gay people?? So you chuck in a three paragraph tangent about me thinking gay people are bad and possibly hiding my lesbianism? Brilliant.
        
        You're the one who posted a story" certain words make me think bad things always". You used those words, lesbian, bulge and whatever the other one was.
        
        I didn't assume they were bad words, though you're telling me i did, they make you think of "bad things always" like penis, perv and tongue I believe it was. They can be sexually related words or neutral, like you wish, depending upon the context, but you are the one attaching the word bad to these things and when we use the same words aSkInG yOu abOuT yOur FuCkInG sTory, you rant into oblivion.
        
        You're fuckin bananas...probably makin smoothies too.
        
        But it's my logic that's very strange you say?? You are the one attacking people. I never said I hated anyone and I never mentioned religion. Whose ass are you pulling this shit from?!?!?!
        
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        NotStrangeBird
        
        10 years ago
        
        I think you've got a better chance of hiring moonbow as your dog walker than you do getting through to this person.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        10 years ago
        
        Tongue is what you taste with and most people do not care who you tell it to. However words like a males genitalia is considered bad depending how its used. It is however used for health discussion.
        
        Also penis is a sexual organ so it has to do with sex. Lesbian is ones sexuality. So things like that are considered naughty. When people refer to sex they refer to it as naughty or dirty.
        
        It is also something most people try to keep away from children till a certien age. When someone is thinking sexual thoughts about someone it often refereed to "Bad thoughts" so I do not see anything about that which would seem out of place. It is the nice way of putting it.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        10 years ago
        
        I said no such thing. Thats word association. I do not see why associating words means something is bad unless you mean sexual as not to be taken lightly. Lesbian is a female that is attracted sexually to other females. Those are perverted words so they are considered dirty or naughty. Like the term "Dirtybird". Is that not what your name means? Birds=women/woman and dirty=promiscuous.
        
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      - [Old Memory]
        
        10 years ago
        
        You just ate the whole retard cake, and licked the crumbs off the plate afterwards.
        
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        charli.m
        
        10 years ago
        
        That was fucking hilarious. I needed a laugh. Thanks :)
        
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    10 years ago
    
    It has no negative connotation. It is just a word.
    
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    - Short&2thepoint
      
      10 years ago
      
      You must hate a of of Richards.
      
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NotStrangeBird

10 years ago

OP, you are absolutely positively on crack. Please stop trying to discuss ANYTHING until you upgrade your reading comprehension skills and your ability to use logic.

You are just making an ass of yourself. You have no idea how to discuss/debate a topic in a constructive manner.

Stop taking everything personally for fuck's sake.

p.s. PENIS BULGE!!!!

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[Old Memory]

10 years ago

"excited and overly graphic and blunt about it."

I suggest you put the [safe(r) mode™] ON if you are going to be using IIN.
Because, many users have questions about sex on this website and I believe it is only fair for them to expect and receive honest descriptive answers.
So, if you don't want to read it, don't open those posts.

You can be as conservative as you want to be. No one is forcing you to talk about sex.

Are you a little ashamed of being considered "repressed"? Sort of like those virgins who get angry when someone calls them a virgin. Why would it bother you if someone thinks that of you? It must bother you, you made a post about it. And two out of three of your poll options are negative towards the people you are asking about.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  10 years ago
  
  Safer mode is not going to do anything. That does not stop people from pushing there beliefs on other people. Asking a question about sex is normal. That is what this site is meant for.
  
  What irritates me is when people are overly sexual people who say we must all speak it all the time. Saying that everyone is sexually repressed as they try and push everyone else into saying something explicit. It is kind of like the kids in high-school who made fun of the virgins.
  
  Especially on posts that have nothing to do with sex. Being a virgin is not a big deal. However being harassed for supposedly not having enough sex or talking about it enough is irritating. So I find overly sexual intolerant people annoying. Since they will not tolerate anyone who is not sexual enough, and wish to harass people they assume are repressed virgin Muslims for not being overly perverted.
  
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  - charli.m
    
    10 years ago
    
    That wasn't what he was doing. You just had your normal misunderstanding/hissy fit.
    
    What he was saying was that those words are not 'bad' or 'dirty' or 'naughty'.
    
    To be fair, I don't know that you were necessarily meaning any negative implications when you used those words, but you did totally overreact.
    
    Oh, and when he said you censored him, that means you delete his posts. So you DID censor him.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      10 years ago
      
      How would that be negative when sex is refereed to in many instances as "Naughty" and "dirty"? Referring to it at all most people use those phrases. Most people know that information. That is used in a lot of instances when talking about how fun it is. So how is that negative in any manner? Its a polite way of putting it. You ever heard the joke about being on Santa "Naughty" list that is an adult joke. Unless you are talking to children in which case it means something different.
      
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      - charli.m
        
        10 years ago
        
        Are you able to converse without the hysterical and irrelevant irrational accusations?
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        10 years ago
        
        I am not stupid enough to be pressured into revealing my sex life. If I really do not want to.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        10 years ago
        
        I would truly. If that was truly a possibility without being hassled for allegedly being a virgin, prude, Muslim. I am not a Muslim by the way. Since according to people on this site anyone of the wrong religion, and has not has sex yet are bad. Not that I am either but I do not see why it should matter or Why it should be used to attack people. Talking about my personal sexual encounters is not something I wish to reveal right now. Some things I like to keep to myself. What I do in the bedroom is no one business but my own. If I choose to share it that should be my option.
        
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      10 years ago
      
      I did not delete anything. What are you talking about? I never deleted anyone's posts for anything. I did delete mine a few times.
      
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      - charli.m
        
        10 years ago
        
        Then where did all the comments go?
        
        We're not stupid. Pretending something never happened doesn't work.
        
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        10 years ago
        
        Maybe they deleted since the person replying deleted their own comments. This site seems to do that a lot.
        
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  - GoraIntoDesiGals
    
    10 years ago
    
    Maybe you should go live in Kandahar. You'll like it. Nobody will rub sex in your face. In fact it's ruled by people who are like you, so offended by it that it is they who push their sexual restraint down everybody's throat.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      10 years ago
      
      You are the one who wants to push sex down everyone's throat. What makes you so insecure you actually think people care about your sexual exploits? Not everyone wants to hear it. You are the one who assumes other people care enough to be offended. It is only annoying when you start pushing it. Otherwise what you do in the bedroom is your choice. Unless its illegal.
      
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      - GoraIntoDesiGals
        
        10 years ago
        
        If you're offended by sex you can choose not to watch/do it. Why are you trying to push your religious beliefs?
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        10 years ago
        
        I never said anything about religion. You are the one who did. Why do you care if I have a religion anyways? I do not see why you have to be so prejudice. Even if I had one why is that any of your concern? It is neither my concern what kinky stuff you decide to do in your spare time. Why should it matter what religion, race, sexuality someone is? Why are you so fucked up you want to dictate that? I really do not care what you are or what religion you follow. You assume everyone is so offended by sex. why don't you just get off it and stop being so insecure? I never said I cared! You insist I do. I already said I do not care. You must enjoy people being angry with you or something. Do you go around wanting to lynch people of a different colour? What makes you think you are so much better?
        
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Whyyouask

10 years ago

I know what you mean. I get so annoyed when my co-workers start talking about their sex life like it's totally normal to talk about that in the middle of a kitchen. Making jokes about fucking each other and stupid things like that. I get so mad especially when they try to drag me into it but, hey, it's the normal thing to do in this day an age innit?

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Caps90

10 years ago

I agree with you! I think it is disrespectful for people to just blab on and on about sex. If people have sex ok,but they should keep the details to themselves.

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[Old Memory]

10 years ago

"I dont think sex is something no one should ever have"

Well I don't think you shouldn't have a dictionary maybe.

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squeallikeasacofpigs

10 years ago

Man, I don't know how you people manage to get so angry about something so small. (Pun not intended).

Also, I don't like how your poll choices force a response which is biased to your point of view. I agree/disagree would be more appropriate.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  10 years ago
  
  Yeah you are right I probobly could have thought of better choices. I was not entirely sure what the options should be though. I tossed in other since I did not give a lot of options and I could not think of anything better. I was not actually trying to be biased when I made the options.
  
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AbnormallyAwesome

10 years ago

You mean there are people who pressure you to use profane language and brag about your sex life? Yes, I think people like that would irritate me to. But that is a level of immaturity I haven't encoutert so far. If you really know someone like that I'd guess he's either incredibly insecure about his sexuality, very simple minded or just very young.

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Kerry69

10 years ago

The majority got it w r o n g.

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EccentricWeird

10 years ago

I vote this as being the most boring threat on IIN of all time, and that's saying something.

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  10 years ago
  
  BAHAHAHAHAHAHA
  
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loopoo

10 years ago

Everyone has different opinions. I don't appreciate hearing about people's sexploits at any occasion though. I think people should just keep it to themselves.

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ScooterNyne

10 years ago

I don't think the OP is playing with a full deck of cards... if you know what I mean.

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bemah

10 years ago

I'm not bothered by what others do, say or think. Leave them to it, we don't have to partake if we don't want to.

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NotStrangeBird

10 years ago

You are the one getting mad at people for discussing sex on your sex poll.

You are the one that thinks frank answers to your sex questions are perverted.

You are the one that is pushing your belief on others.

Keep blaming everyone else.

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- charli.m
  
  10 years ago
  
  I foresee your comments being deleted...
  
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  They were fun to read, though :D
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  10 years ago
  
  What sex poll?
  
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  - kawaiigurl
    
    10 years ago
    
    *facepalm*
    
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  10 years ago
  
  I did not ask anything about sex and do not care who discusses it on this site. I never really did that is those peoples business. If they ask something personal and sexual that is the persons choice. If someone says something off topic I will wonder why they mentioned on that poll. Not everything is about sex either.
  
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  - lampanus
    
    10 years ago
    
    I hope a zombie rips your dick off.
    
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Woof

10 years ago

I think you have a right to your opinions.

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handsignals

10 years ago

The OP's not gettin any.

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GoraIntoDesiGals

10 years ago

Likewise I can't stand prudes.

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YouKnowWho

10 years ago

OH MY GOODNESS, what a huge misunderstanding! I get what you mean OP, you're not against sex, you just think "prude-shaming" is wrong. I thought most people would agree with you, but apparently even a non-radical opinion like that is enough to make everybody lose their minds.

In response to your actual post, I'm antisexual, so naturally I agree with you that people who make such a huge deal of sex and force other people to be perverts like them is completely revolting.

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Couman

10 years ago

Oddly, I don't recall ever seeing someone do that. That leads me to believe you're just over sensative.

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elenaki

10 years ago

I think all people are different and you should treat them as such. I have friends who talk really openly about their sex life and I have other friends who will tell me a general "we did it" and that's it. I'm not one to go into graphic detail (unless I'm asked in which case it's not my fault), but I do like to call things by their name. That taken into account I try to be discreet when the subject is brought up in front of a person whose limits I don't know, but if we're already talking about sex I think they can take some adult words. I don't understand why you would be so easily offended.

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Are You Normal?

Is it normal intolerant overly sexual people irritate me?