I can kind of see what you mean. My boyfriend, before we met, had a "thing" with my nemesis. I am curious to know if they had sex, but I am sure finding out would just piss me off. Yet I want to know...but don't? I don't want to imagine her and compare myself to her every time we do something sexual. I see what you mean, only as far as I know, he didn't have any one night stands or anything.
When I was younger I did some pretty stupid stuff, but I have grown since then and have changed and I wouldn't want my past "encounters" screwing with my current relationship. They are in the past, I have learned from them and moved on.
But does it seem like she is bragging about one night stands and being a booty call? Because then I would be more concerned. But if she just accepts that yes, those events took place, nothing can change then, then it would be best to focus on just you and her, as opposed to you, her, and her entire past of encounters she can't change.
I shall let you know if I ask my bf about sex with my nemesis, and how that plays out. Perhaps I will have better advice for you then. Perhaps you just need to accept your jealousy and work on controlling it, even though jealousy is one of the hardest human emotions to wrangle into submission.
I see. If I were you, I would try to lay off of the topic; there is nothing she can do to change her actions, and bringing it up will only make you jealous.
I do try but when I'm by myself at home, work ect it just lingers and pisses me off I know I shouldn't think about it I shouldn't let it get to me but its impossible
is it normal im so jealous
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I can kind of see what you mean. My boyfriend, before we met, had a "thing" with my nemesis. I am curious to know if they had sex, but I am sure finding out would just piss me off. Yet I want to know...but don't? I don't want to imagine her and compare myself to her every time we do something sexual. I see what you mean, only as far as I know, he didn't have any one night stands or anything.
When I was younger I did some pretty stupid stuff, but I have grown since then and have changed and I wouldn't want my past "encounters" screwing with my current relationship. They are in the past, I have learned from them and moved on.
But does it seem like she is bragging about one night stands and being a booty call? Because then I would be more concerned. But if she just accepts that yes, those events took place, nothing can change then, then it would be best to focus on just you and her, as opposed to you, her, and her entire past of encounters she can't change.
I shall let you know if I ask my bf about sex with my nemesis, and how that plays out. Perhaps I will have better advice for you then. Perhaps you just need to accept your jealousy and work on controlling it, even though jealousy is one of the hardest human emotions to wrangle into submission.
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She doesn't brag in fact she doesn't like bringing it up I'm just stupid so I. Make her tell me now I'm fucked
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I see. If I were you, I would try to lay off of the topic; there is nothing she can do to change her actions, and bringing it up will only make you jealous.
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I do try but when I'm by myself at home, work ect it just lingers and pisses me off I know I shouldn't think about it I shouldn't let it get to me but its impossible