I didn't say that at all. I was saying you can't change what she's done, and have to prepare yourself for the reality that young people get around. And for the record, as far as I know she's only been with four guys which is quite lower than I expected. Maybe not at this age, but this isn't that bad. I'm saying you should focus on you and her, not them. It's not the first time a guy has had to deal with past lovers or anything.
If you loved a girl and you knew she did one night stands and was just a booty call would you stay with her? Why? Even if she had good qualities, couldn't you find someone else with the same qualities that didn't sleep around?
I'm not sure, because I've never been in your position. All I can say is that it is from the people I know, sleeping with a few guys isn't that bad, you can't blame her on the booty call or virginity thing since she was young and that is a typical age these days to lose it. I mean it is only two years ago, but a lot can change. I wouldn't fault you for either decision so I just hope you make the best one for you.
She's been with more these just stick out like I said I don't care that she's been around I just care why, I understand if she was in a relationshi, but its looked at differently if she's not. I know I should focus on her and I can't change what she's done but neither can I accept it at this time, I know all this and I know I need to get past it but I just don't know. I want things to be right. I want to be her man. I want her to be my girl. But unfortunately I can't see me with her if this prolongs.
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I didn't say that at all. I was saying you can't change what she's done, and have to prepare yourself for the reality that young people get around. And for the record, as far as I know she's only been with four guys which is quite lower than I expected. Maybe not at this age, but this isn't that bad. I'm saying you should focus on you and her, not them. It's not the first time a guy has had to deal with past lovers or anything.
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If you loved a girl and you knew she did one night stands and was just a booty call would you stay with her? Why? Even if she had good qualities, couldn't you find someone else with the same qualities that didn't sleep around?
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I'm not sure, because I've never been in your position. All I can say is that it is from the people I know, sleeping with a few guys isn't that bad, you can't blame her on the booty call or virginity thing since she was young and that is a typical age these days to lose it. I mean it is only two years ago, but a lot can change. I wouldn't fault you for either decision so I just hope you make the best one for you.
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My friend I feel the exact same way, I just don't know and I want the best but what is the best:/
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To overcome your problem if you like or love this girl enough. That I think is the best choice.
She's been with more these just stick out like I said I don't care that she's been around I just care why, I understand if she was in a relationshi, but its looked at differently if she's not. I know I should focus on her and I can't change what she's done but neither can I accept it at this time, I know all this and I know I need to get past it but I just don't know. I want things to be right. I want to be her man. I want her to be my girl. But unfortunately I can't see me with her if this prolongs.