I don't think anything you said, OP, is the least bit racist! I have zero desire to date outside of my own culture, and if someone thinks that's racist they can just fuck right off! I think that when it comes to dating, and attraction it's a very personal thing, and that no one has the right to judge me for actually preferring people I find attractive to whom I can actually relate. When it comes to dating I don't think that everyone deserves a chance, and it's very selfish the way some people fetishize others of different cultures to whom they are attracted.
I remember once I went out with this little, idiot who liked me just to be nice, and what a big mistake. The dude spent the whole night trying to put the moves on me, and wasn't interested in talking much. He didn't wanna smoke out, and he didn't listen to a damn thing I said. I finally got fed up, and asked him what he liked about me, and he said, "you're pretty, and nice". Ugh! Pretty, and nice is how I would describe a chair, or some other inanimate object! I don't think finding another person attractive is enough reason to want to go out with them, or worse yet enough reason to expect them to go out with you.
If someone doesn't want to hear what I've got to say, objectifies me, and comes from another culture that oppresses women I wouldn't want to date him if his life depended on it! I honestly think that if someone is only interested in sex, and what women look like that maybe he deserves to not have anyone! He sure as hell can't ever have me!
Being alone is not so bad, and honestly I rather prefer it these days. You don't owe it to anyone to give them a chance, and NEVER let anyone pressure you into dating someone you don't want to date. It's infinitely better to be alone than with the wrong person!
IIN im not racist, but
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I don't think anything you said, OP, is the least bit racist! I have zero desire to date outside of my own culture, and if someone thinks that's racist they can just fuck right off! I think that when it comes to dating, and attraction it's a very personal thing, and that no one has the right to judge me for actually preferring people I find attractive to whom I can actually relate. When it comes to dating I don't think that everyone deserves a chance, and it's very selfish the way some people fetishize others of different cultures to whom they are attracted.
I remember once I went out with this little, idiot who liked me just to be nice, and what a big mistake. The dude spent the whole night trying to put the moves on me, and wasn't interested in talking much. He didn't wanna smoke out, and he didn't listen to a damn thing I said. I finally got fed up, and asked him what he liked about me, and he said, "you're pretty, and nice". Ugh! Pretty, and nice is how I would describe a chair, or some other inanimate object! I don't think finding another person attractive is enough reason to want to go out with them, or worse yet enough reason to expect them to go out with you.
If someone doesn't want to hear what I've got to say, objectifies me, and comes from another culture that oppresses women I wouldn't want to date him if his life depended on it! I honestly think that if someone is only interested in sex, and what women look like that maybe he deserves to not have anyone! He sure as hell can't ever have me!
Being alone is not so bad, and honestly I rather prefer it these days. You don't owe it to anyone to give them a chance, and NEVER let anyone pressure you into dating someone you don't want to date. It's infinitely better to be alone than with the wrong person!