Some of the most attractive, amazing people I've had and/or known are black or mixed (I'm white.).
I'd happily date people of virtually any background but so many men from so many cultures are very patriarchal and/or expect traditional You Woman Me Man And Head Of Household roles.
Would never knowingly go for a Desi specifically unless he had some British upbringing and/or was progressive (Lol!)... There's a reason that "bobs and vagene" is a meme!
Same with most (as far as I know) British men - they're everywhere! *I'm* a Brit! Why should I just stick to my own kind? That's boring.
Typically I go on a case by case level for any nationalities and colours and cultures but even with that, there are some definite patterns.
There's a whole bus route I avoid because I had a bad experience with a driver, who happened to be black. He thought I was his "girlfriend" and one day took a specific route so I "wouldn't have to walk as far". Creepy twat.
As for women and/or other genders... That's again a case by case basis but it's harder than you think finding queer women who aren't part of the Emotional Labour Mob. And non-binary people are the absolute worst for that.
I'm speaking as someone who's non-binary, a recovering Leftbooker and trying to get out of the Emotional Labour Mob.
Oddly, I've actually found that most incidents of racism I've noticed have been from black people (Although you do get a lot of whites who behave like this. Probably including me).
If I got with someone from a different culture, I'd do my best to learn about it. Afro hair? I'd ask them to teach me how to take care of it. Same with hijabs. Or whatever else.
But I don't think I could ever date someone religious again. My last partner (white) was bullied into evangelism. Seven years I wasted with him.
And an unfortunate reality is that many countries aren't safe for LGBT people born and bred in them, let alone LGBT foreigners.
IIN im not racist, but
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Some of the most attractive, amazing people I've had and/or known are black or mixed (I'm white.).
I'd happily date people of virtually any background but so many men from so many cultures are very patriarchal and/or expect traditional You Woman Me Man And Head Of Household roles.
Would never knowingly go for a Desi specifically unless he had some British upbringing and/or was progressive (Lol!)... There's a reason that "bobs and vagene" is a meme!
Same with most (as far as I know) British men - they're everywhere! *I'm* a Brit! Why should I just stick to my own kind? That's boring.
Typically I go on a case by case level for any nationalities and colours and cultures but even with that, there are some definite patterns.
There's a whole bus route I avoid because I had a bad experience with a driver, who happened to be black. He thought I was his "girlfriend" and one day took a specific route so I "wouldn't have to walk as far". Creepy twat.
As for women and/or other genders... That's again a case by case basis but it's harder than you think finding queer women who aren't part of the Emotional Labour Mob. And non-binary people are the absolute worst for that.
I'm speaking as someone who's non-binary, a recovering Leftbooker and trying to get out of the Emotional Labour Mob.
Oddly, I've actually found that most incidents of racism I've noticed have been from black people (Although you do get a lot of whites who behave like this. Probably including me).
If I got with someone from a different culture, I'd do my best to learn about it. Afro hair? I'd ask them to teach me how to take care of it. Same with hijabs. Or whatever else.
But I don't think I could ever date someone religious again. My last partner (white) was bullied into evangelism. Seven years I wasted with him.
And an unfortunate reality is that many countries aren't safe for LGBT people born and bred in them, let alone LGBT foreigners.