IIN im considering freinds with benifits

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    5 years ago | pl

    I have always been in this place. I guess I'm what some would call damaged. I also am notorious for being super indifferent to my partners. However I know how to tease them and follow the protocol of the normal dating rituals. So often it seems I'm a wonderful charming, loving partner. However I'm usually so out of touch with my emotions I often don't know what they look like.

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    • snoopmoth
      5 years ago | pl

      Have you ever been to therapy? You don't have to date anyone and you probably shouldn't if you don't feel anything for them.

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        5 years ago | pl

        I just date them because it helps with self esteem and gives me an outlet. To calm down I use sexual activity, affection or violence. My pet was very affectionate and calmed me but is no longer with me. I'm also into BDSM which would fall under violence but it's often hard finding a suitable partner.

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        • snoopmoth
          5 years ago | pl

          Have you thought about getting another pet?

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          • Anonymous Post Author
            5 years ago | pl

            I have but my current living situation we can not keep pets here. You think it would fix things?

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            • snoopmoth
              5 years ago | pl

              I really don't know, but since it helped you in the past it could help you right now.

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