HEY.
I experienced the same thing with an ex. I HATED weed, and felt like you do. It became a huge issue in our relationship and made me like weed was more important to him than I was. Which isn't true by the way. To him, smoking weed isn't a big deal. (Honestly, it isn't.) So he doesn't expect it to hurt as much as it does. I've been in your shoes. And here's my advice:
If you haven't tried smoking weed, do it with him. Just once. Show him you're willing to try and understand why it's something he enjoys so much. You can't say something is terrible if you've never been on that side of the spectrum. Grow a pair, and live a little. Weed is very safe, and you don't have to smoke a lot either. Just TRY IT. He'll love that you'd be willing to do that for him.
STEP TWO:
Depending on what you take from the experience determines your next move. If you end up realizing, "Wait! I too enjoy this magical plant" then problem solved. You might surprise yourself, I used to hate weed and now I'm a stoner. My current bf (Whom I'm marrying) got me to ease into giving it a try, and I learned how harmless it is!
If you end up still feeling like it's poison, then you have to break up with him. The issue is too big to ignore. It's a core value issue with him as a person that you disagree with. There is NO way to eliminate the anger or hurt by tolerating it. UNLESS you realize it isn't something you were conditioned to believe it is. A "dangerous illegal drug". Watch some documentaries on weed too, that helped me. Educate yourself!!
Is it normal im anti drugs and my boyfriend smokes weed
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HEY.
I experienced the same thing with an ex. I HATED weed, and felt like you do. It became a huge issue in our relationship and made me like weed was more important to him than I was. Which isn't true by the way. To him, smoking weed isn't a big deal. (Honestly, it isn't.) So he doesn't expect it to hurt as much as it does. I've been in your shoes. And here's my advice:
If you haven't tried smoking weed, do it with him. Just once. Show him you're willing to try and understand why it's something he enjoys so much. You can't say something is terrible if you've never been on that side of the spectrum. Grow a pair, and live a little. Weed is very safe, and you don't have to smoke a lot either. Just TRY IT. He'll love that you'd be willing to do that for him.
STEP TWO:
Depending on what you take from the experience determines your next move. If you end up realizing, "Wait! I too enjoy this magical plant" then problem solved. You might surprise yourself, I used to hate weed and now I'm a stoner. My current bf (Whom I'm marrying) got me to ease into giving it a try, and I learned how harmless it is!
If you end up still feeling like it's poison, then you have to break up with him. The issue is too big to ignore. It's a core value issue with him as a person that you disagree with. There is NO way to eliminate the anger or hurt by tolerating it. UNLESS you realize it isn't something you were conditioned to believe it is. A "dangerous illegal drug". Watch some documentaries on weed too, that helped me. Educate yourself!!
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you.. hate.. weed? there was a point in my life where I hated weed and I still smoked it!