I think thats how you see it an inadvertedly youre forcing it on him in such a way where he has to choose between you or the weed. In reality, his hobbies are completely irrelevant to his love for you. Trust me. I love my boyfriend to death but he gave me the "me or the cigarette" ultimatum and i lied about smoking for about a year and a half and now i have almost quit in an effort to make him happy and i have nothing but resentment for him because i feel like he forced me to give up an aspect of my life. Its not goos for me, yes i know, but that gives him no right to change me or act like my father. I dont ask him to change his habits. So anyways the only result was that i lied to him all the time and would often choose the cigarette over him because he was pissing me off so much about it that i didnt even want to be near him. If i had any more sense i would leave him already, and i think about it a lot but i cant do it. Likewise my first relationship i didnt want my boyfriend doing drugs so he just used to do it behind my back. By saying you dont want to see that youre essentially removing yourself from his world and
annoying him. If he decides he wants to do it on his own thats great. If i wouldnt bug him about it because he will just start hating you and you wont win the battle. If you dont thinj you can deal with it for the rest of your life then just leave as early as possible, but dont expect him to change his habits to be with someone
Is it normal im anti drugs and my boyfriend smokes weed
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I think thats how you see it an inadvertedly youre forcing it on him in such a way where he has to choose between you or the weed. In reality, his hobbies are completely irrelevant to his love for you. Trust me. I love my boyfriend to death but he gave me the "me or the cigarette" ultimatum and i lied about smoking for about a year and a half and now i have almost quit in an effort to make him happy and i have nothing but resentment for him because i feel like he forced me to give up an aspect of my life. Its not goos for me, yes i know, but that gives him no right to change me or act like my father. I dont ask him to change his habits. So anyways the only result was that i lied to him all the time and would often choose the cigarette over him because he was pissing me off so much about it that i didnt even want to be near him. If i had any more sense i would leave him already, and i think about it a lot but i cant do it. Likewise my first relationship i didnt want my boyfriend doing drugs so he just used to do it behind my back. By saying you dont want to see that youre essentially removing yourself from his world and
annoying him. If he decides he wants to do it on his own thats great. If i wouldnt bug him about it because he will just start hating you and you wont win the battle. If you dont thinj you can deal with it for the rest of your life then just leave as early as possible, but dont expect him to change his habits to be with someone