What you have to worry about, over anything, is you. Technically, weed isn't a drug. Technically, smoking weed has many benefits. But not technically, you have problem with it. While I do not agree with your analysis on weed, it's your opinion, and I will respect that. Your boyfriend seems like a nice enough guy. If you enjoy being with him, and he makes you happy... You have to weigh that against your objection to drug use. If you're bothered by smoke, you'll have to cut it off. On the end, do you love him and the way he makes you feel more than you hate his drug use? If, in the end, you're going to fight with him every day about it... It's best to break up. And soon, because the longer you wait, the harder it will be.
While most people will tell you to offer an ultimatum with him; ie, choose me or the weed; I don't think this is the best choice. Ultimatums always leave both people angry and resentful in the end. Asking him to give up weed is like him asking you to give up your dog. He loves weed; you love your dog. But does he love weed or do you live your dog more than he loves you or you love him? No. It's part of his life. It's part of who he is, at least for now. If you can't except that part of him, it's best to move on.
Is it normal im anti drugs and my boyfriend smokes weed
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What you have to worry about, over anything, is you. Technically, weed isn't a drug. Technically, smoking weed has many benefits. But not technically, you have problem with it. While I do not agree with your analysis on weed, it's your opinion, and I will respect that. Your boyfriend seems like a nice enough guy. If you enjoy being with him, and he makes you happy... You have to weigh that against your objection to drug use. If you're bothered by smoke, you'll have to cut it off. On the end, do you love him and the way he makes you feel more than you hate his drug use? If, in the end, you're going to fight with him every day about it... It's best to break up. And soon, because the longer you wait, the harder it will be.
While most people will tell you to offer an ultimatum with him; ie, choose me or the weed; I don't think this is the best choice. Ultimatums always leave both people angry and resentful in the end. Asking him to give up weed is like him asking you to give up your dog. He loves weed; you love your dog. But does he love weed or do you live your dog more than he loves you or you love him? No. It's part of his life. It's part of who he is, at least for now. If you can't except that part of him, it's best to move on.