You said spouse, not boyfriend, so I recommend you don't listen to the majority of comments and "get the hell out of there."
I read an article from a relationship therapist once, one of her major comments was that men who don't treat their wife properly, or respect them like they once used to (Getting flowers, I love you's, hugs, kisses) often complain to the therapist that they aren't getting sex, but if he's still putting in the effort to keep his wife happy, then she's usually willing to have sex with him. This could be part of the problem. Keep in mind this goes both ways, women can neglect their husband in the same ways.
I guess what I'm saying is if you want to get your relationship going back on the right track, find the main issue. Is he treating you right, are you treating him right? Talk to him of coarse, and don't get mad!! You have to hear him out or else you'll just start fighting again. Agree to disagree on certain things, but most importantly remember, sex isn't everything. If you're not being sexually pleased by your husband, it's certainly a problem, but a realtionship shouldn't revlove around it, or else it can get boring fast. This is all presumptuouse of coarse, as I don't know you personally, but I hope things work out for you :)
~cheers
Is it normal if you not attracted to your spouse
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You said spouse, not boyfriend, so I recommend you don't listen to the majority of comments and "get the hell out of there."
I read an article from a relationship therapist once, one of her major comments was that men who don't treat their wife properly, or respect them like they once used to (Getting flowers, I love you's, hugs, kisses) often complain to the therapist that they aren't getting sex, but if he's still putting in the effort to keep his wife happy, then she's usually willing to have sex with him. This could be part of the problem. Keep in mind this goes both ways, women can neglect their husband in the same ways.
I guess what I'm saying is if you want to get your relationship going back on the right track, find the main issue. Is he treating you right, are you treating him right? Talk to him of coarse, and don't get mad!! You have to hear him out or else you'll just start fighting again. Agree to disagree on certain things, but most importantly remember, sex isn't everything. If you're not being sexually pleased by your husband, it's certainly a problem, but a realtionship shouldn't revlove around it, or else it can get boring fast. This is all presumptuouse of coarse, as I don't know you personally, but I hope things work out for you :)
~cheers