Your whole attitude sounds completely crazy to me. Why in the world are you hanging out with this guy, still? You must think that there is some chance you 2 will get back together, and that's a huge mistake.
It doesn't sound like you've been with many men, so it's just silly to think your ex is the best you'll find.
Stop seeing him (and torturing yourself) and start dating. Don't think so much about finding a replacement for your ex; think about it as having some fun with a friend. Date a few guys and don't get serious about any of them; again, just have fun.
Your misery is not punishing your ex, it is only punishing you.
IIN if you don't want to get over your ex?
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Your whole attitude sounds completely crazy to me. Why in the world are you hanging out with this guy, still? You must think that there is some chance you 2 will get back together, and that's a huge mistake.
It doesn't sound like you've been with many men, so it's just silly to think your ex is the best you'll find.
Stop seeing him (and torturing yourself) and start dating. Don't think so much about finding a replacement for your ex; think about it as having some fun with a friend. Date a few guys and don't get serious about any of them; again, just have fun.
Your misery is not punishing your ex, it is only punishing you.