Its normal to not always be real. When first meeting someone people are not fully themselves because they want to be accepted, especially if its someone they like or admire. Also when at work, if youre dealing with customers or boses, many are going to fake happiness and politeness. Its adapting to social expectations. I try to be real all the time, except at work because Id get fired otherwise. There are times though where its easier to just go with the flow and times where it pays to be real. Just be who you are, and forget all the rest. Thats the easiest way to deal with it.
I wish I can forget the rest but that's not reality. Like I said below, it's necessary to socialize to live healthy and happy and its true. So as much as I'd like to just be me and live in my own world, I can't. Reality is I want to socialize but part of it is to be fake? I don't fit in anywhere then.
And actually, even on this site, people seem so compassion I wonder...who are these people? Do they even exist? and if they do, is this who they really are but show a tougher exterior in person? Wouldn't be surprised on bit.
There are some people both on here and in life that are always fake because they arent comfortable with who they are. Others want to seem tough or cool. Then theres asshole and conpassionate people. You never know what someone is truly like till tou give them a chance and take the time to get the real them, not the front they are putting on.
IIN if people make me depressed?
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Its normal to not always be real. When first meeting someone people are not fully themselves because they want to be accepted, especially if its someone they like or admire. Also when at work, if youre dealing with customers or boses, many are going to fake happiness and politeness. Its adapting to social expectations. I try to be real all the time, except at work because Id get fired otherwise. There are times though where its easier to just go with the flow and times where it pays to be real. Just be who you are, and forget all the rest. Thats the easiest way to deal with it.
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I wish I can forget the rest but that's not reality. Like I said below, it's necessary to socialize to live healthy and happy and its true. So as much as I'd like to just be me and live in my own world, I can't. Reality is I want to socialize but part of it is to be fake? I don't fit in anywhere then.
And actually, even on this site, people seem so compassion I wonder...who are these people? Do they even exist? and if they do, is this who they really are but show a tougher exterior in person? Wouldn't be surprised on bit.
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There's a bunch of inconsiderate rude people on here too, you haven't met them yet?
There are some people both on here and in life that are always fake because they arent comfortable with who they are. Others want to seem tough or cool. Then theres asshole and conpassionate people. You never know what someone is truly like till tou give them a chance and take the time to get the real them, not the front they are putting on.