Is it normal if my young daughter accidentally sees a penis?

Recently I had met up with an old friend and he came to my house with my children asleep and we had passionate sex. It was the first time in a long time I've had sex with a larger penis, erect it was like 11 inches! He had forgotten a condom so we made sure he pulled out before he finished and we were probably being a bit too loud and as he finished he pulled out and got his "juices" all over me so I went and took a shower. He thought we were there alone so he walked out of the room naked downstairs to get some water turned around and my 13 year old Michelle was right there saw everything and began to freeze until finally running into my bathroom asking what was going so I tried to avoid the questions and have her go back to bed but she would keep trying to ask who he was and why he was naked and I just told her it was nothing to worry about but she's old enough to know he was having sex with me. I feel embarressed that she saw his penis but everything is getting back to normal now I just don't let men walk around my house naked anymore

Is It Normal?
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  • Hence the word 'accidentally', so it's normal.

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  • She's 13. Old enough to have a talk with you about what happened.
    She's probably more embarrassed than what you are.

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  • 13?... shes probably seen a penis or two via porn by now.

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  • Be an adult, don't avoid the subject, talk to her about it.

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  • It's normal for a 13 year old girl to know about sex, I first did it when I was 13 too. I think it was wrong not to answer her question but instead just send her off. You should have just told her the two of you had sex, she would have understood.

    Another thing that you should concider is that I assume he's about your age, so a lot older than her. That might be a turn off for her, if she thinks of a cute attractive guy she probably thinks of someone her own age or nor much above. She probably wouldn't think of him as attractive, eventough to you he is. That's natural, just talk to her about it.

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  • I kind of don't believe this.
    First, did you have to go into detail of the sex to ask the question?
    Second, what's wrong with the human body and having consensual (adult) sex?

    At 13 (if this story is true) she knows about the human body.

    So, if this story is true, the real question is why do I feel guilty about having sex.

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