FIRST, nothing will make her cum if she doesn't trust you, or doesn't feel comfortable with her own body. If she's afraid or aprehensive, it will not happen easily. Lights off if needed.
There is a little 'button' thing- called a clitoris. It is outside and up from where you go inside of her. Feel around. THIS is where your hands come in. Using your fingers, rub it - slowly, exploring all around then back to the target. Whether or not you go hard and fast or however you do it, remember, with women, most of it is mental. Be non judgmental, whether or not she is afraid, embarrassed, or even stops you.
I hadn't been with anyone in a long time, was slightly pensive and embarrassed, he held me down and made me take it until I almost passed out. I lost count, but can tell you it was more than I can do to myself... try it, if it's OK w/ her.
Encourage her to explore and play around by herself then show you what to do and how she likes it. Just don't be sensitive or stubborn about learning- we are all different and like it out own way. Don't become offended at her instructions. Communication is key.
is it normal if my girlfriend cannot cum?
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FIRST, nothing will make her cum if she doesn't trust you, or doesn't feel comfortable with her own body. If she's afraid or aprehensive, it will not happen easily. Lights off if needed.
There is a little 'button' thing- called a clitoris. It is outside and up from where you go inside of her. Feel around. THIS is where your hands come in. Using your fingers, rub it - slowly, exploring all around then back to the target. Whether or not you go hard and fast or however you do it, remember, with women, most of it is mental. Be non judgmental, whether or not she is afraid, embarrassed, or even stops you.
I hadn't been with anyone in a long time, was slightly pensive and embarrassed, he held me down and made me take it until I almost passed out. I lost count, but can tell you it was more than I can do to myself... try it, if it's OK w/ her.
Encourage her to explore and play around by herself then show you what to do and how she likes it. Just don't be sensitive or stubborn about learning- we are all different and like it out own way. Don't become offended at her instructions. Communication is key.