I agree. I think the reason why you want to have sex with Cici is because you want to go back to a time before the abuse happened, and the only way you can see to do that is to have sex with Cici, because that is what happened before the abuse. DEFINITELY go for counselling for this.
Of course, I could be wrong, and in that case just go nuts. I doubt it though, there is always a reason behind stuff like this.
Well I'm suppose to see him today. He was invite by my bff to her hotel party. She doesn't know about anything. I been living by just not see him but I want to face him because I want to know how he's been. Everything aside I miss him as family. I feel it would not be right to have sex with him but I feel like he would overpower me. I kinda do want to but just a small voice says no. I'm trying to listen to that. I have no choice but to say something tonight because I can't not go to my besties party.
I'm gonna mention what u said to him tho because b4 my cousin hurt me we were happy. Cici was hurt also because they took me from him and didn't mind abusing me in front of him. He just got threatened like I did. They tried to make him join in but he tried to be gentle with me & they called him names & kicked him out. They forced him to lookout & I know he let Grandma catch them so it would stop but he got thrown in with them & I was kept away from him also. Without them Cici & I would have grown of our discovery phase. I'm just scared of him now, of doing something we'll regret later. I still feel unprepared but thank a million!!! for the advice.
It sounds to me like you have a fairly dysfunctional family all round, but you've found the root of your own problem. Just do what you think is right. Always happy to help :)
Is it normal if my cousin & I give in to a mutual crush & have sex?
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I agree. I think the reason why you want to have sex with Cici is because you want to go back to a time before the abuse happened, and the only way you can see to do that is to have sex with Cici, because that is what happened before the abuse. DEFINITELY go for counselling for this.
Of course, I could be wrong, and in that case just go nuts. I doubt it though, there is always a reason behind stuff like this.
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Well I'm suppose to see him today. He was invite by my bff to her hotel party. She doesn't know about anything. I been living by just not see him but I want to face him because I want to know how he's been. Everything aside I miss him as family. I feel it would not be right to have sex with him but I feel like he would overpower me. I kinda do want to but just a small voice says no. I'm trying to listen to that. I have no choice but to say something tonight because I can't not go to my besties party.
I'm gonna mention what u said to him tho because b4 my cousin hurt me we were happy. Cici was hurt also because they took me from him and didn't mind abusing me in front of him. He just got threatened like I did. They tried to make him join in but he tried to be gentle with me & they called him names & kicked him out. They forced him to lookout & I know he let Grandma catch them so it would stop but he got thrown in with them & I was kept away from him also. Without them Cici & I would have grown of our discovery phase. I'm just scared of him now, of doing something we'll regret later. I still feel unprepared but thank a million!!! for the advice.
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It sounds to me like you have a fairly dysfunctional family all round, but you've found the root of your own problem. Just do what you think is right. Always happy to help :)